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to come unhinged

to come unhinged

2 8.2
To lose control of your feelings and act very upset
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
translation icon : perder el control
  • After losing his job, he came unhinged and started yelling at everyone.

Examples

  • Calm down, folks—you've come unhinged.

    Blog text (25)
  • Well, he seems to come unhinged every holiday.

  • Because it means the American Right has come completely unhinged.

    Blog text (32)
  • Sorry to have come unhinged!

    Fiction book (1995)
  • I have seen many campaigns come unhinged because of small issues.

    Blog text (33)
  • Matty O'Leary came unhinged when his wife was laid in the ground.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • So, therefore, yes, you are observing the mutterings of people coming unhinged, of them losing their moorings.

    Blog text (15)
  • A lot of it is from Objectivist Romney supporters who probably just came a little unhinged after 9/11 and never sorted things out.

    Blog text (19)
  • Following the argument, she came unhinged and couldn't control her emotions.

  • The stress of the situation caused him to come unhinged during the meeting.

Synonyms

to freak out
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
430 6.8

To become very upset or afraid suddenly and lose control

is broader not only fear responses but wider mental collapse or deep upset
to lose it
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
289 7.5

Suddenly stop controlling your feelings and become very angry or upset

is broader covering longer mental instability or severe uncontrollable behavior
to fall apart
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
193 4.2

To lose control of your feelings because of strong stress or sadness

is broader covering extreme upset that may also affect actions and behavior
to flip out
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
49 7.2

To suddenly lose control and become very angry or upset

is broader including longer lasting instability beyond brief explosive reactions
to go berserk
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
27 7.7

To become very angry and act out of control

is broader including emotional breakdowns that are not violent or frenzied
to go off the deep end
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
15 8.1

Suddenly act in a very emotional and out of control way

is similar but can include longer term mental breakdowns not only sudden fits
to go out of one's mind
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
14 7.3

To be unable to think clearly because you are very worried or upset

is broader including loss of action control as well as severe distress
to fly off the handle
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
11 6.8

To suddenly become very angry

is broader covering many forms of emotional collapse beyond sudden anger
to come undone
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
9 5.3

To begin to fail, fall apart, or lose control

is focused on mental instability and extreme upset rather than structural failure
to fly off
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
7 5.3

To suddenly get very angry without warning

is broader also covering slow declines into mental instability not only sudden anger
to boil over
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
7 4.8

To suddenly lose control and show strong anger

is broader also including nonexpressive mental instability and longer breakdowns
to lose one's temper
vsto come unhinged
2 3.7

To suddenly become very angry and not be able to control yourself

is broader applying to many emotions and deeper lack of mental balance
to go batshit
vsto come unhinged
  • Offensive
2 9.9

To become very angry and act in a wild, out of control way

is the less vulgar more neutral term for severe emotional breakdowns
to go round the bend
vsto come unhinged
  • UK
1 8.6

To become so angry or stressed that you cannot think clearly

is not limited to permanent insanity and also covers sudden extreme upset
to lose one's mind
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
1 6.7

Become very anxious, confused, or upset and act in a way that does not make sense

is wider covering both extreme upset and lack of behavioral control
to trip out
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
1 8.6

Become very upset or excited and act confused suddenly

is focused more on severe disturbance and mental instability rather than brief excitement
to lose one's yarbles
vsto come unhinged
  • Archaic
9.9

To start behaving in a strange and out of control way

is the general non slang term for similar mental lack of control
to lose the run of oneself
vsto come unhinged
  • Archaic
9.9

Act in a confused or uncontrolled way because of strong emotion

is broader covering deep mental breakdowns and lasting lack of control
to go into a tizzy
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
8.3

Get very upset and confused quickly

is broader including full mental instability rather than brief agitation
to lose one's shit
vsto come unhinged
  • Offensive
9.9

To suddenly become very angry or upset in a way you cannot control

is the less vulgar more general term for extreme emotional breakdowns
to lose one's cool
vsto come unhinged
  • Informal
5.9

To suddenly become very angry and fail to control your feelings

is broader covering non anger reactions and more serious mental instability
to throw a wobbly
vsto come unhinged
  • UK
9.9

To become suddenly very angry and upset in a dramatic way

is more general covering private or serious mental collapse not just dramatic outbursts

How Stable

to keep one's cool
  • Informal
30 3.4
to come unhinged
  • Informal
2 8.2
to snap
151 4.0

Surface Forms

come unhinged infinitive
come unhinged past participle
coming unhinged present participle
comes unhinged third person singular

Morphology

come + unhinge

The phrase 'come unhinged' is directly built from 'come' (to become) plus 'unhinged' (mentally/emotionally unbalanced), so its meaning 'to lose control or become mentally unstable' is transparently derivable from the constituents. This is a common change-of-state construction (compare 'come undone', 'come apart') found across languages, making it understandable to learners who know both words.

Etymology

Come unhinged comes from the image of a door whose hinge has come off, so the door can swing or fall and will not stay in place. So, when a person comes unhinged, they 'lose control' of their feelings or actions.