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cross-grained

cross-grained

9.0
A person who is stubborn and often refuses to agree with others
  • adjective
  • /ˈkrɔsˌɡreɪnd/
  • Informal
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  • Her cross-grained attitude made collaborations especially challenging for the team.

Examples

  • He was known for his cross-grained manner, rarely agreeing with anyone's plans.

  • Even in childhood, her cross-grained tendencies were clear whenever she stubbornly resisted advice.

  • My brother can be quite cross-grained when it comes to family decisions.

  • She is known for her cross-grained attitude during negotiations.

  • Her cross-grained attitude often led to disagreements with her colleagues over project decisions.

  • Despite their best efforts, his cross-grained personality made it difficult to reach a consensus during meetings.

  • My friend is known for being cross-grained, especially when confronted with differing opinions.

Synonyms

stubborn
vscross-grained
217 2.9

Not willing to change your mind even when others try to persuade you

is focused on opposing others rather than mere refusal to change
adamant
vscross-grained
72 6.8

Not willing to change one's mind even when others disagree

is the same unwillingness but with more emphasis on opposing others
intransigent
vscross-grained
8 8.1

Not willing to change views or agree with others

is about willful opposition but can be less absolute about agreement
hardheaded
vscross-grained
6 6.7

Refusing to change your mind even when shown evidence

is contrary by will but can be less marked by irrationality
contrarious
vscross-grained
  • Literature
9.9

Often disagreeing with others on purpose to be difficult

is more about being self-willed and difficult to deal with
as stubborn as an anvil
vscross-grained
  • Informal
9.2

Refusing to change an opinion even when people give reasons

is similar but refers to being contrary without extreme intensity
bloody-minded
vscross-grained
  • Offensive
9.1

Refuses to cooperate to cause trouble

is contrary without the deliberate spiteful or obstructive motive

Antonyms

119 3.5

Willing to work with other people to reach a shared goal

31 5.1

Willing to follow rules or do what other people want

How Stubborn

pigheaded
  • Offensive
9 7.8
obstinate
16 7.5
cross-grained
  • Informal
9.0
contrary
14 5.4
difficult
386 2.1

Surface Forms

cross-grained positive

Morphology

cross-grained = cross + grained (semi-transparent) = cross + grain + ed

The word is formed regularly from 'cross' + 'grained' (i.e., 'grain' + -ed), so the morphological structure is clear.

Etymology

Cross-grained is used about people too. A helpful way to remember this is that cross means 'angry' or 'against' and grain means 'nature' or 'habit', so a 'cross-grained' person goes against others and is stubborn.