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cross-grained

cross-grained

1 9.0
A person who is stubborn and often refuses to agree with others
  • adjective
  • /ˈkrɔsˌɡreɪnd/
  • Informal
: terco
  • Her cross-grained attitude made collaborations especially challenging for the team.

Examples

  • He was known for his cross-grained manner, rarely agreeing with anyone's plans.

  • Even in childhood, her cross-grained tendencies were clear whenever she stubbornly resisted advice.

  • My brother can be quite cross-grained when it comes to family decisions.

  • She is known for her cross-grained attitude during negotiations.

  • Her cross-grained attitude often led to disagreements with her colleagues over project decisions.

  • Despite their best efforts, his cross-grained personality made it difficult to reach a consensus during meetings.

  • My friend is known for being cross-grained, especially when confronted with differing opinions.

Synonyms

stubborn
vscross-grained
251 2.9

Not willing to change your mind even when others try to persuade you

is focused on opposing others rather than mere refusal to change
adamant
vscross-grained
72 6.8

Not willing to change one's mind even when others disagree

is the same unwillingness but with more emphasis on opposing others
intransigent
vscross-grained
8 8.1

Not willing to change views or agree with others

is about willful opposition but can be less absolute about agreement
hardheaded
vscross-grained
8 6.7

Refusing to change your mind even when shown evidence

is contrary by will but can be less marked by irrationality
bloody-minded
vscross-grained
  • Offensive
1 9.1

Refuses to cooperate to cause trouble

is contrary without the deliberate spiteful or obstructive motive
contrarious
vscross-grained
  • Literature
9.9

Often disagreeing with others on purpose to be difficult

is more about being self-willed and difficult to deal with
as stubborn as an anvil
vscross-grained
  • Informal
9.2

Refusing to change an opinion even when people give reasons

is similar but refers to being contrary without extreme intensity

Antonyms

112 3.5

Willing to work with other people to reach a shared goal

35 5.1

Willing to follow rules or do what other people want

How Stubborn

pigheaded
  • Offensive
11 7.8
obstinate
16 7.5
cross-grained
  • Informal
1 9.0
contrary
9 5.4
difficult
121 2.1

Surface Forms

cross-grained positive

Morphology

cross-grained = cross + grained (semi-transparent) = cross + grain + ed

The word is formed regularly from 'cross' + 'grained' (i.e., 'grain' + -ed), so the morphological structure is clear.

Etymology

Cross-grained is used about people too. A helpful way to remember this is that cross means 'angry' or 'against' and grain means 'nature' or 'habit', so a 'cross-grained' person goes against others and is stubborn.