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brittle

brittle

10 7.4
Cold and unfriendly in the way someone behaves
  • adjective
  • /ˈbrɪtəl/
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  • Her conversations often felt brittle, lacking the warmth of genuine connection.

Examples

  • There was a brittle, fragile quality about her that was both appealing and clinically convincing.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • And she leans forward and she says, the kids I see at Stanford today are brittle, exhausted, and they don't want to mar their perfect records.

  • But I could also feel how brittle her mood was.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • "There was a laugh now, short and brittle as glass."

    Fiction book (1999)
  • His voice was suddenly thin and brittle, like the shell of something hollow.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • "I'm trying to listen to my music, Mom," Silas says in a brittle voice.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • We are messy, unshowered, brittle, distracted, angry, sad, tired.

  • Her outgoing nature had hardened into brittle good cheer because she felt she had to be friendly.

    Academic text (2000)
  • Her haughty laugh, lacking in grace, is as brittle as the crystals she has taken to wear as earrings.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • He'd finally relented and bowed his head, his body brittle with embarrassment.

    Academic text (2016)

Synonyms

cold
vsbrittle
883 4.4

Unfriendly and distant in feeling or action

is similar but focuses more on appearing chilly than bluntly remote
tough
vsbrittle
403 3.8

Emotionally strong and not easily moved by feelings

is unfriendly in manner rather than emphasizing strength or resilience
icy
vsbrittle
22 3.3

Cold and unfriendly in tone or manner

is unfriendly too but less extreme in emotional distance
stony
vsbrittle
7 6.5

Showing no feeling or sympathy

is about chilly manners rather than the fully blank expression described
cold as ice
vsbrittle
  • Informal
4 7.2

Not showing any feeling or kindness to others

is less absolute, suggesting cooler behaviour rather than total unfeelingness
coldhearted
vsbrittle
4 6.0

Showing no care or sympathy for other people

is similar but highlights manner rather than deep absence of compassion
hard-boiled
vsbrittle
3 6.5

A person who is tough and does not show feelings or pity

is unfriendly but does not stress toughness born of hardship
hardhearted
vsbrittle
1 7.2

Not feeling or showing pity for other people

is colder in manner but not necessarily actively merciless
cold-eyed
vsbrittle
1 7.6

Not showing strong feeling when judging something

is colder in manner rather than simply detached objectivity
stonyhearted
vsbrittle
9.6

Not feeling sorry for other people

is more about a cold manner than deep unfeeling character
cold-livered
vsbrittle
  • Offensive
9.9

Does not feel or show care for other people

is unfriendly in manner without implying outright cruelty
hardened
vsbrittle
5.6

Made emotionally tougher after repeated difficult experiences

is unfriendly without implying emotional change caused by hardship
case-hardened
vsbrittle
8.6

Being emotionally hard and not showing feelings because of bad experiences

is chilly in manner but does not imply hardening from experience
pachydermatous
vsbrittle
  • Literature
9.9

Not easily upset by what others say or feel

is cold in manner rather than medically or figuratively thickened feeling

Antonyms

773 1.0

Kind and helpful toward other people

1 3.7

Kind and friendly to other people

Compounds

A hard sweet of cooked sugar and peanuts that you break into pieces

A delicate fern with thin divided leaves and easily broken stems

9.9

A scented desert shrub with brittle stems, yellow flowers, and a sticky resin used in incense

8.1

A delicate fern with thin divided leaves and stems that break easily

A tropical American fern that people often grow for its broad divided leaves

A tropical fern with thin, easily broken leaves often grown indoors for its pretty look

A sea animal like a starfish with a small round body and long thin arms that break easily

A large willow tree with thin branches that break easily

A small sea animal with a round body and long thin arms like a starfish

How Warm

warm
280 1.0
friendly
773 1.0
brittle
10 7.4
aloof
34 6.3
cold
883 4.4

Surface Forms

brittle positive
brittler comparative
brittlest superlative

Etymology

Brittle used for a person's manner comes from the same image of being easy to 'break' or snap, like the word break. So a brittle tone or smile feels cold and sharp because the person seems likely to snap or be easily hurt.