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hardhearted

hardhearted

1 7.2
Not feeling or showing pity for other people
  • adjective
  • /ˈhɑrdˌhɑrtɪd/
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  • Despite his success, he remained hardhearted, often refusing to help those less fortunate.

Examples

  • And he would answer, "I am not hardhearted, Mandy, but I am hardheaded, as a man must be who aims to run a prosperous business and support his family."

    Fiction book (1990)
  • But like her father, Erica was mainstream, savvy, and deep-down hardhearted—prom queen from the word go.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • And if anyone asks me how you treated me... I'll say you are bad and hardhearted and mean.

  • Maybe you think I'm hardhearted, your own mother... ...but what I'm gonna do is the only thing I can think of.

  • I'm certainly not calling you hardhearted, and I think naive may be a reasonable conclusion.

    Blog text (12)
  • Not that I'm not sad or hardhearted or anything, but I prefer to be with myself, and I sit on the balcony and watch the seagulls and the cars crawling along the sea road.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • This powerful, quiet force can penetrate the most callous and hardhearted atheist you'd ever wanna meet.

  • But what does matter is the suffering of a man... many men... and many men I see here who choose to be so ignorant of life, suffering, and pain that they would write such hardhearted messages as: coward, faggot, etc.

    Blog text (6)
  • As for Rousseau's bêtes noires, the rich, he casts them as hateful because both hardhearted and hypocritical.

    Academic text (1997)
  • You would have to be hardhearted to ignore the cries of those in need.

Synonyms

tough
vshardhearted
403 3.8

Emotionally strong and not easily moved by feelings

leans more toward cruelty and lack of mercy than mere resilience
heartless
vshardhearted
  • Offensive
79 4.1

Not showing kindness or sympathy to others

is similar but emphasizes merciless attitude rather than mere coldness
cold-blooded
vshardhearted
  • Offensive
54 6.1

Showing no pity and acting cruel on purpose

is similar but may not imply planned or deliberate cruelty
unkind
vshardhearted
44 1.0

Not friendly or caring to other people

is similar but more severe in emotional coldness and cruelty
callous
vshardhearted
41 7.3

Not caring about other people's feelings or pain

shares cruelty but focuses more on unfeeling nature than intent
unforgiving
vshardhearted
35 5.8

Not willing to forgive someone and acting without mercy

focuses on general lack of compassion rather than refusal to pardon
unfeeling
vshardhearted
14 5.9

Not showing sympathy or care for other people's feelings

focuses more on being actively merciless rather than simply unresponsive
hard-nosed
vshardhearted
12 7.2

A practical, tough person who is not moved by feelings

is colder and more merciless rather than merely practical
brittle
vshardhearted
10 7.4

Cold and unfriendly in the way someone behaves

is more severe, focusing on absence of mercy rather than cold manner
unsympathetic
vshardhearted
7 4.9

Not feeling sorry for someone or caring about their problems

adds a stronger sense of mercilessness beyond mere lack of sympathy
remorseless
vshardhearted
6 7.5

Not feeling sorry and continuing without stopping when hurting others

overlaps but is more about cold lack of feeling than relentlessness
coldhearted
vshardhearted
4 6.0

Showing no care or sympathy for other people

is the same idea but with added harshness or cruelty
hard-bitten
vshardhearted
4 8.2

Tough and not easily upset because of difficult past experiences

is similar but stresses active lack of compassion rather than learned hardness
cold as ice
vshardhearted
  • Informal
4 7.2

Not showing any feeling or kindness to others

is similar but suggests a harsher, merciless stance
hard-boiled
vshardhearted
3 6.5

A person who is tough and does not show feelings or pity

is more openly merciless rather than simply emotionally tough
uncompassionate
vshardhearted
1 7.3

Not caring when other people suffer

is similar but also implies a cruel or merciless quality
roughshod
vshardhearted
1 8.9

Acting in a harsh way that ignores other people's feelings

is closer to emotional absence rather than active domination
kindless
vshardhearted
  • Archaic
1 8.6

A person who does not show care for other people

is harsher, stressing an active absence of mercy
unpitying
vshardhearted
8.8

Not showing kindness or mercy when others suffer

shares harshness but highlights broader lack of compassion
stonyhearted
vshardhearted
9.6

Not feeling sorry for other people

is the same lack of feeling with added merciless tone
meanspirited
vshardhearted
  • Offensive
7.4

Unkind and petty in a way that hurts other people

is broader, focusing on serious mercilessness rather than pettiness
ungiving
vshardhearted
7.4

Not willing to give, share, or be kind to others

is broader, stressing emotional lack rather than refusal to give
pachydermatous
vshardhearted
  • Literature
9.9

Not easily upset by what others say or feel

matches the hardened trait but emphasizes active mercilessness more

Antonyms

151 3.7

Feeling concern and care for people who suffer

54 3.3

Kind and willing to forgive someone who is suffering or has done wrong

1 3.4

A person who feels sorry for others and helps them

How Compassionate

compassionate
151 3.7
hardhearted
1 7.2
cruel
522 2.7
merciless
33 5.3

Surface Forms

hardhearted positive

Morphology

hardhearted = hard + heart (transparent) = hard + heart + ed

Meaning is directly derivable as 'having a hard heart' (lacking feeling), following common English adjective formation with '-ed' on a compound base.

Etymology

The word hardhearted comes from hard ('not soft') and heart ('feelings' or 'compassion'). Imagine someone's heart becoming 'hard' so they do not feel sympathy, which is why hardhearted means lacking compassion.