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unfeeling

unfeeling

14 5.9
Not showing sympathy or care for other people's feelings
  • adjective
  • /ʌnˈfiːlɪŋ/
translation icon : insensible
  • Merry Christmas to the unfeeling, unkind, miserly founder of this feast, Mr. Scrooge.
  • unfeeling and impersonal
  • cold and unfeeling

Examples

  • I do understand his sentiment, but I think it was rather unfeeling in how it was done.

    Blog text (30)
  • I never knew it was possible for a medical doctor to be so unfeeling.

  • Raise a child with justice alone, and the result will be an unfeeling bully.

    Academic text (2008)
  • How could you be so unfeeling to Miss Bates?

  • Many others remained victims throughout, blaming school, unfeeling teachers, racism, and their circumstances for their own personal failures.

    Academic text (2015)
  • Like everyone else, Marian is only staking out her place in this unfeeling world.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • How can one drink the health of such an odious, stingy, hard, unfeeling man as Mr Scrooge?

  • Merry Christmas to the stingy, unfeeling, unkind founder of the feast: Mr. Scrooge.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • As readers witness the tumultuous effects Edgar's misinterpretations have on Camilla, Edgar seems confident, unfeeling, narcissistic, and hypercritical.

    Academic text (2018)
  • His unfeeling response to the tragedy shocked everyone at the meeting.

Synonyms

cold
vsunfeeling
883 4.4

Unfriendly and distant in feeling or action

is emotionally distant in feeling and tone rather than merely unfriendly
heartless
vsunfeeling
  • Offensive
79 4.1

Not showing kindness or sympathy to others

is emotionally distant but may not intend active cruelty toward others
callous
vsunfeeling
41 7.3

Not caring about other people's feelings or pain

is emotionally distant but not necessarily cruel or deliberately harmful
uncaring
vsunfeeling
18 4.2

Not showing concern for other people's feelings or needs

is emotionally distant without implying indifference in every action
unsympathetic
vsunfeeling
7 4.9

Not feeling sorry for someone or caring about their problems

is emotionally distant rather than only failing to express concern
coldhearted
vsunfeeling
4 6.0

Showing no care or sympathy for other people

is emotionally distant and insensitive without implying active cruelty
cold as ice
vsunfeeling
  • Informal
4 7.2

Not showing any feeling or kindness to others

is emotionally distant in plain terms rather than using figurative emphasis
uncompassionate
vsunfeeling
1 7.3

Not caring when other people suffer

is emotionally distant in general rather than specifically lacking compassion
hardhearted
vsunfeeling
1 7.2

Not feeling or showing pity for other people

is emotionally distant but not always strongly resistant to feeling
unsympathizing
vsunfeeling
7.9

Not showing care or understanding for other people's feelings

is emotionally distant but may not actively refuse to help
unpitying
vsunfeeling
8.8

Not showing kindness or mercy when others suffer

is emotionally distant rather than deliberately harsh or merciless
indurate
vsunfeeling
  • Formal
9.9

Not able to feel or show care for other people

is emotionally distant but does not stress long term hardening
stonyhearted
vsunfeeling
9.6

Not feeling sorry for other people

is emotionally distant without necessarily conveying such extreme firmness
cold as charity
vsunfeeling
  • Archaic
9.9

Acting kind but not showing real care

is emotionally distant without the ironic or poetic emphasis of that phrase
cold-livered
vsunfeeling
  • Offensive
9.9

Does not feel or show care for other people

is emotionally distant rather than highlighting personal cowardice or cruelty

Antonyms

30 4.4

To understand and share other people's feelings

How Compassionate

compassionate
151 3.7
empathetic
30 4.4
sympathetic
152 3.4
indifferent
46 4.4
unfeeling
14 5.9
callous
41 7.3

Surface Forms

unfeeling positive
unfeelinger comparative
unfeelingest superlative

Morphology

unfeeling = feeling (transparent) = un + feel + ing

Formed by the productive negative prefix 'un-' attached to 'feeling', producing the clear meaning 'not showing feeling'.

Etymology

The word unfeeling comes from un- ('not') and feel ('to have emotion or sympathy'), so it means 'not showing emotion or sympathy'. That's why we call someone unfeeling when they seem cold and do not comfort others.