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cold as charity

cold as charity

9.9
Acting kind but not showing real care
  • idiom
  • Archaic
translation icon : frío como la caridad
  • Don't be so cold as charity!

Examples

  • Her voice was cold as charity when she gave him the bad news.

  • He greeted his guests with a cold as charity smile that made everyone uncomfortable.

  • Although she helped, her manner was cold as charity, making it hard to feel grateful.

  • Her response was cold as charity after the bad news.

  • His cold as charity demeanor made it difficult for others to connect with him emotionally.

  • The manager's cold as charity response to the employees' concerns left them feeling unvalued.

  • Despite her achievements, she remained cold as charity towards her colleagues, rarely offering support.

Synonyms

cold
vscold as charity
883 4.4

Unfriendly and distant in feeling or action

is distant and lacking compassion rather than merely unemotional behavior
cold-blooded
vscold as charity
  • Offensive
54 6.1

Showing no pity and acting cruel on purpose

is emotionally distant and unkind but not always intentionally cruel
icy
vscold as charity
22 3.3

Cold and unfriendly in tone or manner

is distant and lacking compassion rather than merely unfriendly tone
chilly
vscold as charity
16 3.5

Not friendly or warm toward other people

is more emotionally distant and stronger in lack of compassion
unfeeling
vscold as charity
14 5.9

Not showing sympathy or care for other people's feelings

is emotionally distant but may still show occasional practical help
frigid
vscold as charity
8 5.2

Not friendly or warm in how someone acts

is emotionally distant but can be less harsh in manner
unsympathetic
vscold as charity
7 4.9

Not feeling sorry for someone or caring about their problems

is emotionally distant more broadly rather than only unsupportive responses
cold as ice
vscold as charity
  • Informal
4 7.2

Not showing any feeling or kindness to others

is emotionally distant but can be less absolute in lack of feeling
coldhearted
vscold as charity
4 6.0

Showing no care or sympathy for other people

is emotionally detached rather than actively cruel or vindictive
kindless
vscold as charity
  • Archaic
1 8.6

A person who does not show care for other people

is emotionally distant in general rather than simply lacking kind actions
stone-cold
vscold as charity
1 4.1

Very cold with no warmth left

is emotionally distant but may not imply such total absence
cold-eyed
vscold as charity
1 7.6

Not showing strong feeling when judging something

is emotionally distant in warmth but not primarily about objectivity
compassionless
vscold as charity
1 7.4

Shows no sympathy for people who suffer

is distant in feeling but can sometimes still act without cruelty
stonyhearted
vscold as charity
9.6

Not feeling sorry for other people

is generally lacking warmth without stressing firm refusal of pity
cold as a witch's kiss
vscold as charity
  • Literature
9.9

Showing no warmth or feeling

is distant without necessarily conveying the same extreme unfriendliness
subzero
vscold as charity
5.5

Very cold in behavior, showing no warmth or friendliness

is distant but often not intended to stress extreme lack of warmth
cold-livered
vscold as charity
  • Offensive
9.9

Does not feel or show care for other people

is distant and lacking compassion but not necessarily cruel

Antonyms

151 3.7

Feeling concern and care for people who suffer

How Unsympathetic

heartless
  • Offensive
79 4.1
cold as charity
  • Archaic
9.9
indifferent
46 4.4
distant
61 4.9
reserved
3.7

Surface Forms

cold as charity positive

Morphology

cold + as + charity

The constituents 'cold' (unfriendly) + 'as' (comparison) + 'charity' (benevolence/compassion) give a clear hint that the expression concerns warmth/compassion, so part of the meaning is recoverable compositionally. However the simile is figurative and somewhat unusual (potentially ironic), so a B1 learner who has not seen the phrase may not reliably predict the exact idiomatic sense without exposure.

Etymology

Cold as charity may come from the picture of someone giving money or help while keeping a cold face; charity means 'help' and cold shows no warm feeling, so the image is of help without warmth. That's why cold as charity describes a person who is kind in action but emotionally distant.