cold as charity
- idiom
- Archaic
- Don't be so cold as charity!
Examples
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Her voice was cold as charity when she gave him the bad news.
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He greeted his guests with a cold as charity smile that made everyone uncomfortable.
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Although she helped, her manner was cold as charity, making it hard to feel grateful.
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Her response was cold as charity after the bad news.
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His cold as charity demeanor made it difficult for others to connect with him emotionally.
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The manager's cold as charity response to the employees' concerns left them feeling unvalued.
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Despite her achievements, she remained cold as charity towards her colleagues, rarely offering support.
Synonyms
Unfriendly and distant in feeling or action
Showing no pity and acting cruel on purpose
Cold and unfriendly in tone or manner
Not friendly or warm toward other people
Not showing sympathy or care for other people's feelings
Not friendly or warm in how someone acts
Not feeling sorry for someone or caring about their problems
Not showing any feeling or kindness to others
Showing no care or sympathy for other people
A person who does not show care for other people
Very cold with no warmth left
Not showing strong feeling when judging something
Shows no sympathy for people who suffer
Not feeling sorry for other people
Showing no warmth or feeling
Very cold in behavior, showing no warmth or friendliness
Does not feel or show care for other people
Antonyms
How Unsympathetic
- Offensive
- Archaic
Surface Forms
Morphology
The constituents 'cold' (unfriendly) + 'as' (comparison) + 'charity' (benevolence/compassion) give a clear hint that the expression concerns warmth/compassion, so part of the meaning is recoverable compositionally. However the simile is figurative and somewhat unusual (potentially ironic), so a B1 learner who has not seen the phrase may not reliably predict the exact idiomatic sense without exposure.
Etymology
Cold as charity may come from the picture of someone giving money or help while keeping a cold face; charity means 'help' and cold shows no warm feeling, so the image is of help without warmth. That's why cold as charity describes a person who is kind in action but emotionally distant.