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to throw in the towel

to throw in the towel

27 4.8
To stop trying because you know you cannot succeed
  • idiom
  • /θroʊ ɪn ðə ˈtaʊəl/
  • Informal
translation icon : tirar la toalla
  • - You're ready to throw in the towel, aren't you?
  • ready to throw in the towel

And I think people that throw in the towel these days aren't comfortable with themselves.

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Examples

  • Our tendency is that if we mess up, we want to throw in the towel.

    Blog text (6)
  • 'Cause if we're not, I will throw in the towel.

  • But if we all kind of throw in the towel, then, then, then we're giving up without a fight.

  • Yes, it must be hard to know when it's time to throw in the towel.

  • If I can still do what nobody else can, why should I throw in the towel?

    Fiction book (1998)
  • I was about to throw in the towel.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Before we give up, before we throw in the towel, let's meet with a third party to get perspective.

  • Sometimes things do look very bleak, but it's too soon to throw in the towel.

    Blog text (4)
  • That's right, I'm going to throw in the towel.

  • After months of struggling, I finally decided to throw in the towel and change my approach.

Synonyms

to give up
vsto throw in the towel
1.2

To stop trying to do something or accept defeat

is used when stopping happens after realizing success is impossible
to give it up
vsto throw in the towel
683 3.7

To stop doing something you once did

specifies stopping due to realizing failure rather than simple cessation
to quit
vsto throw in the towel
653 1.5

To stop trying when something is too hard

implies stopping because one realizes success cannot be achieved
to give in
vsto throw in the towel
220 3.0

To stop resisting and agree to what others want

involves stopping because one sees no chance to succeed rather than yielding to pressure
to drop out
vsto throw in the towel
214 3.0

To leave a course, competition or group before finishing

refers to leaving early rather than stopping from realizing one cannot succeed
to concede
vsto throw in the towel
49 4.9

To accept that you have lost a contest or election

expresses stopping after realizing failure rather than only admitting loss
to call it quits
vsto throw in the towel
  • Informal
34 3.9

To stop doing something because you cannot continue or feel you have done enough

occurs when stopping follows realizing one cannot succeed not merely feeling finished
to throw in
vsto throw in the towel
  • Informal
29 4.9

Stop trying because you cannot win

stops because they realize they cannot succeed any longer
to fall by the wayside
vsto throw in the towel
  • Informal
11 6.5

Stop taking part or trying because of problems

tends to imply passive failure rather than a deliberate admission of defeat
to wave the white flag
vsto throw in the towel
  • Informal
4 4.0

To stop trying and accept that you lost

is used when stopping follows realizing one cannot succeed rather than public surrender
to say uncle
vsto throw in the towel
  • Informal
2 8.9

To give up because of pressure or pain

stops after realizing failure rather than surrendering only from pressure
to cry uncle
vsto throw in the towel
  • Informal
1 8.8

To admit you give up when someone pressures you

happens when someone stops because they realize they cannot succeed, not only from pressure
to drop by the wayside
vsto throw in the towel
  • Informal
1 7.5

Stop taking part because it becomes too difficult

usually describes falling behind rather than deciding to stop from realizing failure
to chuck up the sponge
vsto throw in the towel
  • UK
9.9

To stop trying because it seems pointless

focuses on personal realization of inability to succeed rather than futility of effort
to jack it
vsto throw in the towel
  • Slang
9.9

To stop doing something suddenly because you are frustrated

is stopping after recognizing failure rather than sudden abandonment from frustration

Antonyms

62 3.7

To keep doing something or keep holding a belief despite difficulty

How Defeated

surrender
77 4.2
to throw in the towel
  • Informal
27 4.8
to give up
1.2
to bow out
20 4.9

Surface Forms

throw in the towel infinitive
throwing in the towel present participle
throws in the towel third person singular
thrown in the towel past participle

Morphology

throw + in + the + towel

The sense 'to stop trying/admit defeat' is an idiomatic, culturally specific meaning derived from the boxing practice of throwing a towel to signal surrender, which is not predictable from the literal words 'throw' and 'towel.' A B1 learner who knows the constituent words but has not encountered the idiom would not reliably infer the metaphorical sense, so the expression is opaque.

Etymology

The idiom throw in the towel comes from boxing. When a boxer's team threw a towel into the ring to stop the fight, it meant the boxer had to 'give up', so today the phrase means 'to stop trying' or 'admit defeat'.