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surliness

surliness

1 7.7
A way of behaving that is angry and unfriendly
  • noun
  • /ˈsɜrliˌnɪs/
translation icon : malhumor
  • His constant surliness made it difficult for others to approach him.
  • a reputation for surliness

Examples

  • I've had enough of your discourtesy and surliness... ...and so have the tenants in my building.

  • Nina seemed to fade in and out of surliness.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • Do you think that your surliness is the best way for you to get what you want?

  • Summer had had about enough of his surliness.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Surliness runs in my family.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • And he had this, this surliness was a big part of his demeanor.

  • She put up with his surliness, his filth, and his noise because it gave her a sense of security.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Edith Hollis was usually the model of brightness, but every so often the camera caught that edge of surliness.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • She knew that I could be brought out of my surliness, my seething anger at my father's constant vigilance, by a visit from the storytelling salesman.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • What makes the work of p107 the Polite Society necessary, he told Schmidt, is the sort of backsliding in considerate behavior that Margaret Thatcher was referring to when she said, "Graciousness is being replaced by surliness in much of everyday life."

    Fiction book (1995)

Synonyms

meanness
vssurliness
9 5.4

Being unkind on purpose to other people

is chiefly about mood and unfriendly attitude, not deliberate cruelty
irritability
vssurliness
8 4.2

Being easily annoyed or quick to become angry

is about bad temper combined with unfriendly behaviour not just annoyance
mean streak
vssurliness
  • Informal
7 6.5

A habit of being unkind or cruel to other people

is about bad temper or rudeness rather than chronic cruelty
petulance
vssurliness
5 9.0

Being easily annoyed and acting childish

is about general bad temper or unfriendliness not only childish sulks
unkindness
vssurliness
3 4.1

Lack of care for other people

is about bad temper or rudeness, not just lack of helpfulness
obnoxiousness
vssurliness
2 8.0

Being very rude and annoying to other people

is more about a bad temper or coldness, not extreme offensiveness
gruffness
vssurliness
1 6.6

A rough, unfriendly way of speaking or acting

is more about an ill mood than only a blunt speaking style
peevishness
vssurliness
1 7.3

A tendency to become easily annoyed and impatient

is more about a rude cold mood rather than mild irritation
unfriendliness
vssurliness
1 3.9

A cold, not kind way of behaving toward other people

is more about showing bad temper rather than only coldness
snappishness
vssurliness
1 8.5

A habit of giving short, angry answers when annoyed

is more about a lasting bad mood than only sudden sharp replies
iciness
vssurliness
1 5.8

A cold, unfriendly feeling between people

is more about visible bad temper or rudeness rather than mere coldness
snippiness
vssurliness
1 7.7

A short, slightly rude way of speaking to someone

is more about lasting ill temper than brief curt replies
snottiness
vssurliness
1 8.1

Rude behavior that shows you think you are better than others

is about a bad mood or coldness rather than arrogant contempt
snideness
vssurliness
1 8.1

A mocking way of speaking that shows dislike or disrespect

is more general bad temper or unfriendliness, not mocking tone
callous attitude
vssurliness
1 7.2

A cold, uncaring way of treating other people

is more about bad temper and rudeness rather than emotional numbness
ungentleness
vssurliness
1 8.2

A harsh, unkind way of speaking or acting

is centered on mood and unfriendliness, not only rough behaviour
disagreeableness
vssurliness
8.1

A quality of being unpleasant and hard to get along with that makes people avoid you

is more about mood and rudeness rather than general difficulty
cantankerousness
vssurliness
9.2

A habit of being bad-tempered and hard to get along with

is mainly about mood and unfriendliness rather than arguing alone
pettishness
vssurliness
9.0

Being easily annoyed and angry about small things in a childish way

is broader, covering unfriendly mood beyond minor petty complaints
biliousness
vssurliness
  • Literature
9.9

A tendency to become angry easily

is more about bad mood or coldness rather than explosive anger
thorniness
vssurliness
8.9

A harsh, unfriendly manner that hurts or upsets people

is more about mood and unfriendliness than simply difficulty
ungraciousness
vssurliness
8.1

Being rude and not polite to other people

is more about bad temper and unfriendly tone rather than poor manners
uncharitableness
vssurliness
8.6

A lack of kindness or willingness to help others

is focused on mood and unfriendliness, not specifically generosity
meanspiritedness
vssurliness
  • Offensive
7.9

Being unkind and cruel to other people on purpose

is more about bad mood or unfriendly tone, not planned cruelty
contemptuousness
vssurliness
8.5

Showing strong dislike and no respect for a person or thing

is more about a bad mood or unfriendliness than active scorn

Antonyms

16 1.0

A kind and pleasant way of treating other people

1 4.1

A friendly, pleasant way of behaving that makes people feel comfortable

How Unfriendly

hostility
147 4.7
surliness
1 7.7
aloofness
4 7.2

Surface Forms

surliness singular
surlinesses plural

Morphology

surliness = surly (transparent) = surly + ness

Derived directly from the adjective 'surly' with the nominalizing suffix '-ness', so the meaning is straightforward for learners who know 'surly'.

Etymology

The word surliness comes from surly, which once meant 'like a sir', meaning proud or lordly, and later changed to mean 'bad-tempered', perhaps because it sounded like sour. So, surliness is the quality of being 'bad-tempered' or 'unfriendly'.