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unfriendliness

unfriendliness

1 3.9
A cold, not kind way of behaving toward other people
  • noun
  • /ʌnˈfrɛndliˌnɛs/
translation icon : desamabilidad
  • The absence of a smile in these drawings may have been meant to convey unfriendliness.

That feeling of unease and unfriendliness and fear.

Examples

  • Counselors may expect unfriendliness upon meeting their clients, and this expectation in return might produce a significant barrier to forming a positive therapeutic alliance or even lead to premature termination by the client.

    Academic text (2011)
  • The attitude risk consists of attitude towards one's own self and others; the students have low self-esteem and feel burned out with unfriendliness.

    Academic text (2011)
  • Look, I say all of this not out of unfriendliness...

    Blog text (2)
  • That feeling of unease and unfriendliness and fear.

  • "What are you doing with your clothes on?" Lotty Herschel was sharp to the point of unfriendliness.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • The relevant chapters of her otherwise accurate and entertaining memoir radiate frustration over the contrast between the friendliness of the Swiss people and the unfriendliness of the American diplomats.

    Academic text (2002)
  • Her unfriendliness towards new students made it difficult for them to feel welcomed.

  • The unfriendliness of the staff at the hotel surprised many guests.

  • He noticed a distinct unfriendliness in her tone when they disagreed.

Synonyms

coldness
vsunfriendliness
7 3.2

Lack of warmth or friendliness in someone's behaviour

is the general absence of friendliness across situations
unkindness
vsunfriendliness
3 4.1

Lack of care for other people

is about lacking warmth rather than actively causing hurt
iciness
vsunfriendliness
1 5.8

A cold, unfriendly feeling between people

is similar but focused on lacking warmth rather than cold tone
frigidity
vsunfriendliness
1 8.1

A lack of warmth or friendliness in how someone acts

is the social expression of that same emotional coldness
frigid demeanor
vsunfriendliness
7.8

A way of behaving that is cold and unfriendly

is the broader state of not showing warmth or friendliness
uncongeniality
vsunfriendliness
9.8

Lack of friendliness and harmony in a group or place

is focused narrowly on absence of warmth rather than mismatch
disagreeableness
vsunfriendliness
8.1

A quality of being unpleasant and hard to get along with that makes people avoid you

is more about absence of warmth than general difficulty
unapproachability
vsunfriendliness
9.3

A way someone seems that makes people avoid talking to them

describes being unfriendly more generally, not only being hard to reach
inhospitableness
vsunfriendliness
8.9

A lack of welcome or friendliness to guests

covers general lack of warmth, not only toward visitors
ungraciousness
vsunfriendliness
8.1

Being rude and not polite to other people

is less about rudeness and more about absence of warmth
uncharitableness
vsunfriendliness
8.6

A lack of kindness or willingness to help others

is milder, mainly signalling missing warmth rather than harshness
unfeelingness
vsunfriendliness
8.3

A lack of care or sympathy

is about social coldness rather than absence of inner feeling

Antonyms

103 1.0

A friendly, kind feeling in the way someone speaks or acts

16 1.0

A kind and pleasant way of treating other people

How Friendly

warmth
103 1.0
friendliness
16 1.0
indifference
71 4.6
unfriendliness
1 3.9
hostility
147 4.7

Surface Forms

Morphology

unfriendliness = unfriendly (transparent) = un + friend + ness

Formed by adding the noun-forming suffix '-ness' to the adjective 'unfriendly', so the noun's meaning is directly predictable from the base adjective.

Etymology

The word unfriendliness is made of un- meaning 'not', the simple word friend meaning 'someone you are friendly to', and the ending -ness meaning 'a state'. So it means the 'state of not being friendly'.