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aloofness

aloofness

4 7.2
A feeling of being distant from other people and not friendly
  • noun
  • /əˈluːf.nəs/
translation icon : distanciamiento
  • Her aloofness made it difficult for others to get to know her well.
  • image of aloofness

There was a personal quality free of platform aloofness or affectation or superiority in your talk.

Examples

  • The English had all been very polite, but below the politeness was a chilly aloofness.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • And on the topic of her aloofness, she is unreachable.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • There was a time when you thought well of my aloofness.

  • During the late 1960s, the idea of aloofness of the university from society was utterly destroyed in America.

    Academic text (1990)
  • With an air of aloofness, she reached over and grasped the handle of the door.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • Part of the role seemed to require a certain lofty aloofness, which she carried off to perfection.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • A beauty that emanates aloofness and, in that, an alluring mystery.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • All the stored-up loneliness of her sixteen years, all her aloofness, reversed.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • The facial expression of this idealized image reflects aloofness and composure.

    Academic text (1997)
  • If students sense a whiff of indifference or boredom or aloofness on your part, you can very well bet that they will respond in turn.

Synonyms

distance
vsaloofness
129 5.4

A feeling of not being close to someone

implies that plus a reserved or uninvolved public manner
detachment
vsaloofness
21 6.1

A lack of emotional involvement with people or situations

is similar but adds a reserved social manner rather than only emotional separation
coldness
vsaloofness
7 3.2

Lack of warmth or friendliness in someone's behaviour

is wider social and emotional distance rather than only a lack of warmth
coolness
vsaloofness
3 5.5

A distant, unfriendly way of acting that shows little feeling

is social reserve and uninvolvement, not just a cool reaction
distancing
vsaloofness
1 4.8

Making less emotional or social contact with someone

is the lasting state of being distant rather than the act of creating it
remoteness
vsaloofness
1 6.3

A distant, not friendly manner that keeps others away

is the social and emotional distance combined with a reserved demeanor
impersonality
vsaloofness
1 7.6

A lack of personal warmth or feeling when people speak and act

is social and emotional distance with a reserved personal attitude rather than neutrality
standoffishness
vsaloofness
1 8.8

Being unfriendly and distant with other people

is the broader state of social distance rather than just an unfriendly tone
withdrawnness
vsaloofness
8.4

A habit of staying quiet and keeping away from other people

is similar but emphasizes emotional reserve rather than just retreating behaviour
offishness
vsaloofness
8.9

A way of acting toward other people that is distant and not friendly

covers the same social separation but focuses more on inward reserve
reservedness
vsaloofness
7.4

Quiet behaviour that does not show feelings or thoughts openly

is the outward social distance combined with emotional uninvolvement
taciturnity
vsaloofness
9.3

A tendency to be quiet and avoid talking

is social and emotional distance rather than mainly low talkativeness
unsociableness
vsaloofness
9.4

A habit of avoiding being with other people

is emotional and social distance rather than only avoiding company
unsociability
vsaloofness
8.3

Avoiding being with other people

is broader emotional reserve as well as avoiding social contact
frigid demeanor
vsaloofness
7.8

A way of behaving that is cold and unfriendly

is the broader state of being distant and uninvolved rather than coldness alone

Antonyms

418 2.9

Taking part in an activity, group, or discussion

26 2.8

A warm emotional relationship between people who trust each other

How Distant

detachment
21 6.1
indifference
71 4.6
coldness
7 3.2
aloofness
4 7.2
reserve
9 5.2
warmth
103 1.0

Surface Forms

aloofness singular
aloofnesses plural

Morphology

aloofness = aloof (transparent) = aloof + ness

Standard nominalization: the noun denotes the state or quality of being 'aloof', directly derived from the adjective.

Etymology

Aloofness comes from the sailing word aloof, made of a- 'on' and loof 'wind side', which described a ship kept 'away' from the shore—think of a boat staying at a distance. So, aloofness is the habit of keeping people or feelings at a distance, being emotionally or socially reserved.