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to put past someone

to put past someone

7.7
Stop letting past mistakes affect how you treat someone
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
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  • She struggled for a long time, but eventually learned to put past her mistakes and embrace new opportunities.

Examples

  • He worked hard to put past himself and rebuild his relationships.

  • After years of resentment, she finally managed to put past him and forgive.

  • It's important to put past someone and focus on making things better in the future.

  • After the argument, he decided to put past what happened and move on with their friendship.

  • To find happiness, it's essential to put past old grudges and focus on the present.

Synonyms

to overcome
vsto put past someone
429 2.9

Deal with and defeat a problem or fear

focuses on ceasing to let past problems affect your feelings or actions
to get past
vsto put past someone
270 3.0

Manage to move beyond a problem or a bad feeling

is about trying to stop past problems from affecting your life
to forgive and forget
vsto put past someone
  • Informal
12 3.5

To stop feeling angry about a past event and be friendly again

involves trying to stop letting past problems affect oneself emotionally
to let bygones be bygones
vsto put past someone
10 5.3

Forgive past fights so they do not affect the present

focuses on personally deciding to stop letting past problems affect oneself
to wipe the slate clean
vsto put past someone
  • Informal
8 5.0

To start fresh by forgetting past mistakes and problems

means moving on so past issues no longer influence your actions
to live down
vsto put past someone
4 7.7

Make people forget or forgive a past mistake over time

is about internal effort to not let earlier issues affect oneself

Antonyms

53 5.2

To think or talk a lot about something upsetting

to hold a grudge
  • Informal
42 4.8

To feel angry at someone for something they did in the past that hurt you

How Recovered

to let it go
370 3.5
to put past someone
  • Informal
7.7
to dwell on
53 5.2
to hold a grudge
  • Informal
42 4.8

Surface Forms

put past someone infinitive
putting past someone present participle
puts past someone third person singular
put past someone past participle

Morphology

put + past + someone

There is a visible compositional link—'put' (place/bring) + 'past' (into the past) suggests moving something into a prior time, a notion cross-linguistically expressed by 'put/leave behind'—so a learner could partly infer a sense of moving on. However, the specific idiomatic pattern ('put it past someone' / object omission and the role of the person) is not a straightforward, standard composition and would likely be unclear to a B1 learner without prior exposure.

Etymology

Put past someone gives a clear picture: you put an old problem past a person, pushing it behind them so they can no longer see or carry it. So, it means 'to stop letting past problems affect you'.