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to put up with

to put up with

265 4.3
To accept something unpleasant without complaining
  • phrasal verb
  • /pʊt ʌp wɪð/
: soportar
  • I won't put up with it when it comes to my kids.
  • no longer put up with

All the worst people have the hardest time putting up with correction, right?

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Examples

  • Let's just say that not many people could put up with the way I live.

  • That's how our lives are, but we put up with it to stay here.

    Academic text (2017)
  • Nobody else would put up with you the way I do, man.

  • We put up with it far too long.

  • I feel like women have to put up with more stuff than men typically do.

  • Darling, why do you put up with it?

  • For that reason, we put up with it and continue to be here.

    Academic text (2017)
  • I've had to put up with a lot in my time.

  • "I'm the only one who would put up with him," she said, interrupting him.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • She has always put up with his annoying habits without complaining.

Synonyms

to stand
vsto put up with
∞ 3.1

To resist harm and continue to exist despite difficulty

leans toward ordinary tolerance rather than firm resistance
to accept
vsto put up with
870 3.5

To tolerate an unpleasant situation without complaining

is a more conversational way to express that acceptance
to live with
vsto put up with
684 3.9

To accept something unpleasant that you cannot change

is used more generally for accepting many short term annoyances
to bear
vsto put up with
425 3.9

To accept something difficult or unpleasant

is the common phrasal form used for the same idea
to endure
vsto put up with
326 3.5

To deal with something difficult for a long time without giving up

focuses more on everyday tolerance rather than long suffering
to cope with
vsto put up with
170 2.9

Manage a difficult problem, situation or strong feeling

focuses more on passive acceptance rather than active problem handling
to tolerate
vsto put up with
139 3.5

Endure something unpleasant without complaining

is the everyday phrasal way to express that same allowance
to stick out
vsto put up with
  • Informal
63 4.9

To continue in a difficult situation until the end

highlights ordinary acceptance rather than determined completion
to suck it up
vsto put up with
  • Informal
53 8.8

Accept a difficult situation and continue without complaining

expresses the same idea but with a more neutral, conversational tone
to bear with
vsto put up with
44 4.8

To be patient with someone while they fix something

means simple everyday acceptance rather than temporary patient waiting
to stomach
vsto put up with
34 5.5

To be able to tolerate something you dislike

describes the same quiet taking but in plain everyday speech
to abide
vsto put up with
26 4.6

To not tolerate someone or something unpleasant

is the more casual phrase used to describe that same endurance
to brook
vsto put up with
  • Formal
6 8.8

To allow something annoying or unpleasant to happen

is the informal conversational way to describe that allowance
to support
vsto put up with
3 3.5

Tolerate something difficult without complaining

is the informal phrasal equivalent for the same quiet endurance
to grin and bear it
vsto put up with
  • Informal
3 6.8

To accept an unpleasant situation without complaining

is a simpler phrase that also expresses quiet acceptance
to handle your dickery
vsto put up with
  • Offensive
9.9

To accept someone's annoying or foolish behavior without complaining

is the general, neutral phrasal form for tolerating annoyance

Antonyms

∞ 1.0

To say you are unhappy about something and want it changed

How Tolerant

to endure
326 3.5
to stand
∞ 3.1
to put up with
265 4.3
to tolerate
192 3.2
to accept
∞ 1.0

Surface Forms

put up with infinitive
put up with past participle
putting up with present participle
puts up with third person singular

Morphology

put + up + with

The meaning 'to accept or tolerate' is not directly or literally derivable from 'put' (place) + 'up' (higher) + 'with' (together/association), so a B1 learner who simply knows the constituents is unlikely to predict the idiomatic sense. However, there is a partial metaphorical connection — 'put up' can extend to 'allow to remain' or 'bear' — giving some inferential cue; the relation is therefore partially transparent but requires exposure to be fully understood.

Etymology

Put up with may come from the simple image of putting something up on your back or over your head and keeping it with you even if it is heavy or annoying. That's why it now means 'to accept or tolerate something unpleasant without complaining'.