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to abide

to abide

26 4.6
To not tolerate someone or something unpleasant
  • verb
  • /əˈbaɪd/
: soportar
  • I cannot abide any more suffering.

Heaven preserve you, I dare abide no longer.

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Examples

  • Like, you know, I, I can't really abide someone not being truthful.

  • So therefore this is a relationship based in sin which you cannot abide, right?

  • There are certain things I can never abide: lack of food, lack of sleep, and Aida.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Hamilton refused to abide, for that would be to compromise his honor.

    Academic text (2009)
  • The Yankees living down there wouldn't abide that...

  • Believe me, mademoiselle... if there's one thing I can't abide, it's deceitfulness.

  • I didn't have a flu at the time, but I became violently ill and as a result, I cannot abide the smell of that Greek liqueur.

  • I cannot abide any more suffering at work, as it affects my mental health.

  • He said he would not abide being treated unfairly by his colleagues.

  • Many cannot abide the constant noise from the construction site next door.

Synonyms

to stand
vsto abide
∞ 3.1

To resist harm and continue to exist despite difficulty

leans more toward allowing negatives than active resistance
to accept
vsto abide
870 3.5

To tolerate an unpleasant situation without complaining

is broader and not only about resignation
to live with
vsto abide
684 3.9

To accept something unpleasant that you cannot change

is more general, not limited to unchangeable cases
to bear
vsto abide
425 3.9

To accept something difficult or unpleasant

is closer to simple toleration in negative cases
to endure
vsto abide
326 3.5

To deal with something difficult for a long time without giving up

focuses on general toleration rather than long duration
to put up with
vsto abide
265 4.3

To accept something unpleasant without complaining

is more formal and highlights negative contexts
to tolerate
vsto abide
139 3.5

Endure something unpleasant without complaining

is used similarly but often in negative situations
to stand for
vsto abide
  • Informal
65 3.5

To accept something bad or wrong without complaining

is more general and not only about wrongdoing
to stomach
vsto abide
34 5.5

To be able to tolerate something you dislike

is a general term used for tolerating negatives
to brook
vsto abide
  • Formal
6 8.8

To allow something annoying or unpleasant to happen

is more common in everyday negative situations
to hold still for
vsto abide
  • Informal
1 7.5

Allow something unpleasant without complaining

is broader and used for general negative toleration

Antonyms

∞ 1.0

To stay away from something or not do it to stop something bad from happening

760 1.9

Refuse to accept someone or something

Phrasal Verbs

87 3.5

To accept and follow a rule, decision, or agreement

How Tolerant

to endure
326 3.5
to abide
26 4.6
to bear
425 3.9
to put up with
265 4.3

Surface Forms

abide infinitive
abiding present participle
abides third person singular
abode past
abode past participle

Etymology

Abide comes from the old word bide ('to wait' or 'endure'), and it grew to mean 'put up with' or 'tolerate' someone or something. So when you say you cannot abide someone, you mean you cannot 'stand' or 'endure' them.