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to grin and bear it

to grin and bear it

5 6.8
To accept an unpleasant situation without complaining
  • idiom
  • Informal
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  • When times get tough, sometimes you just have to grin and bear it and continue working.

Examples

  • Just grin and bear it for the time being.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • One just has to grin and bear it, I always say.

  • I knew I had to grin and bear it because it was just part of the Black tax.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • So take tablets, grin and bear it, and leave for work.

  • You'll have to grin and bear it.

  • I'm sorry, Shrek, but can you please just try to grin and bear it?

  • The army teaches you to grin and bear it, doesn't it, Jem?

  • Grin and bear it.

  • Nothing for it but to grin and bear it. To demonstrate her fortitude, she grinned in Molly's direction.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • To homely Catholic maidens, Mrs. Mahon offered the consoling recommendation to "grin and bear it."

    Academic text (1996)

Synonyms

to accept
vsto grin and bear it
3.5

To tolerate an unpleasant situation without complaining

is more about understated acceptance without showing visible distress
to bear
vsto grin and bear it
876 3.9

To accept something difficult or unpleasant

adds the idea of holding feelings back and not showing how upset one is
to live with
vsto grin and bear it
563 3.9

To accept something unpleasant that you cannot change

adds the idea of holding feelings back and not showing how upset one is
to tolerate
vsto grin and bear it
290 3.5

Endure something unpleasant without complaining

adds the nuance of hiding upset and not showing complaint publicly
to put up with
vsto grin and bear it
288 4.3

To accept something unpleasant without complaining

stresses doing so with quiet acceptance rather than mere passive tolerance
to suck it up
vsto grin and bear it
  • Informal
81 8.8

Accept a difficult situation and continue without complaining

is a neutral expression for quietly accepting unpleasantness without showing upset
to resign
vsto grin and bear it
52 5.1

Accept an unpleasant situation you cannot change

is a more idiomatic, everyday way to express quiet acceptance
to reconcile
vsto grin and bear it
27 5.8

To accept something unpleasant that you cannot change

is more about outwardly not showing upset while accepting the situation
to suck it
vsto grin and bear it
  • Offensive
26 9.9

To tell someone to accept bad news or defeat without complaining

is a calmer idiom for quietly accepting an unpleasant situation without complaint
to take lying down
vsto grin and bear it
8 7.2

To accept unfair treatment or criticism without complaining

focuses more on concealing upset and keeping calm rather than mere nonresistance
to take it on the chin
vsto grin and bear it
  • Informal
7 8.2

Accept failure or criticism bravely without complaining

emphasizes keeping quiet and not showing how upset one is
to take as it comes
vsto grin and bear it
  • Informal
6 5.0

Accept what happens calmly and do not worry

is about quietly enduring unpleasant situations rather than reacting to each event
to take in stride
vsto grin and bear it
  • Informal
5 5.0

Deal with a problem calmly without getting upset

focuses on silently accepting unpleasantness rather than simply staying calm
to take one's medicine
vsto grin and bear it
  • Informal
5 6.1

Accept punishment or a bad result without complaining

is about quietly accepting unpleasantness even when it feels unfair or undeserved
to take one's lumps
vsto grin and bear it
  • Informal
2 8.1

To accept unpleasant results and sometimes punishment for something you did

covers accepting unpleasant situations generally, not only consequences of actions
to like it or lump it
vsto grin and bear it
  • UK
1 8.6

Tell someone to accept a situation they cannot change

is similar but emphasizes quietly accepting without showing personal upset
to suck a lemon
vsto grin and bear it
  • Informal
9.9

To accept and deal with an unpleasant situation without complaining

expresses quieter acceptance without the same bitter or sharp tone
to swallow the leek
vsto grin and bear it
  • Archaic
9.9

To accept something unpleasant during talks to avoid bigger problems

covers general silent acceptance, not only humiliating or negotiated situations
love it or lump it
vsto grin and bear it
  • UK
8.8

Accept something as it is even if you do not like it

is a softer idiom expressing the same idea of quiet acceptance
to take the rough with the smooth
vsto grin and bear it
  • Informal
7.7

Accept the good and bad parts of a situation

focuses specifically on silently enduring unpleasantness rather than balancing all aspects

Antonyms

1.0

To say you are unhappy about something and want it changed

283 3.2

To show strong disagreement in public, often by joining a march or strike

How Tolerant

to grin and bear it
  • Informal
5 6.8
to endure
304 3.5
to tolerate
290 3.5
to grumble
41 3.7
to complain
1.0

Surface Forms

grin and bear it infinitive

Morphology

grin + and + bear + it

The components 'grin' (smile) and 'bear' (tolerate) transparently point toward smiling while enduring something unpleasant, so a learner who knows the words would likely infer the general idea. However, the fixed idiomatic phrasing and the pragmatic nuance of suppressing complaint make the exact sense slightly conventionalized rather than fully predictable, so it is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Grin and bear it paints a picture of someone forcing a smile (grin) while carrying a heavy load or pain (bear). So, it means 'accept something unpleasant without complaining'.