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to take the rough with the smooth

to take the rough with the smooth

7.7
Accept the good and bad parts of a situation
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : aceptar lo bueno y lo malo
  • "We have to take the rough with the smooth and taste the bad stuff as well as the good stuff."

Examples

  • In which case, they must take the rough with the smooth and fess up to their mistakes, as well as accept the Nobel Prize when it suits them.

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  • You have to take the rough with the smooth.

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  • We have to take the rough with the smooth and taste the bad stuff as well as the good stuff.

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  • In life, you need to take the rough with the smooth if you want to find happiness.

  • It's important to take the rough with the smooth when managing a business because not every day will be good.

  • To succeed in this job, you must take the rough with the smooth and learn from both failures and successes.

Synonyms

to live with
vsto take the rough with the smooth
563 3.9

To accept something unpleasant that you cannot change

is about accepting both pleasant and unpleasant parts of life
to come to terms with
vsto take the rough with the smooth
76 4.1

To accept a difficult or unpleasant situation

is about accepting both pleasant and unpleasant parts of life
to reconcile
vsto take the rough with the smooth
27 5.8

To accept something unpleasant that you cannot change

is about accepting both pleasant and unpleasant parts of life
to take it on the chin
vsto take the rough with the smooth
  • Informal
7 8.2

Accept failure or criticism bravely without complaining

is about accepting both pleasant and unpleasant parts of life
to take as it comes
vsto take the rough with the smooth
  • Informal
6 5.0

Accept what happens calmly and do not worry

is about accepting both pleasant and unpleasant parts of life
to grin and bear it
vsto take the rough with the smooth
  • Informal
5 6.8

To accept an unpleasant situation without complaining

is about accepting both pleasant and unpleasant parts of life
to take one's lumps
vsto take the rough with the smooth
  • Informal
2 8.1

To accept unpleasant results and sometimes punishment for something you did

is about accepting both pleasant and unpleasant parts of life
to like it or lump it
vsto take the rough with the smooth
  • UK
1 8.6

Tell someone to accept a situation they cannot change

is about accepting both pleasant and unpleasant parts willingly
love it or lump it
vsto take the rough with the smooth
  • UK
8.8

Accept something as it is even if you do not like it

is about accepting both pleasant and unpleasant parts willingly

Antonyms

839 1.9

Refuse to accept someone or something

How Accepting

to embrace
390 3.9
to take the rough with the smooth
  • Informal
7.7
to accept
3.5
to tolerate
290 3.5
to complain
1.0
to resist
311 2.2

Surface Forms

Morphology

take + the + rough + with + the + smooth

The meaning is directly built from the constituents: 'take' (accept), 'rough' (difficult/unpleasant) and 'smooth' (pleasant/easy) joined by 'with' (together), so a learner who knows these words can infer 'accept the unpleasant along with the pleasant'. This compositional pattern (accepting bad and good together) is common cross-linguistically, making the expression immediately comprehensible to a B1 learner.

Etymology

Take the rough with the smooth may come from the picture of a road with rough parts and smooth parts that a traveler must accept to keep going. So, it means 'to accept both the bad and good parts of a situation'.