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primness

primness

1 7.7
Being very proper and formal in a way that feels stiff
  • noun
  • /ˈprɪmnəs/
translation icon : formalidad
  • They were peeking slyly from beneath the pillow, mocking her with their primness.

Examples

  • These developments helped to make him look puckish at times; perhaps they softened the primness I think I see around his mouth when I look at earlier pictures.

    Academic text (1997)
  • "It happens," Ed says, writing down the 4 with his trained accountant's primness.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • For a moment, she thought she would say something about the primness business, but what the hell?

    Fiction book (1996)
  • "The primness of Mhitshul's expression said that he didn't buy a word of it.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Did she predict that at some future point there would be no call from primness or embarrassment about these sorts of fantasies?

    Blog text (14)
  • My grandmother, judging by what I'd heard, had all but died of over-primness; her pictures showed a woman who was anemic and frail.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • The features of his face still in place, a jaunty bounce to his walk, an alertness in his eyes, the primness of his mouth even more pronounced, but still the champ, the light heavyweight champion back in nineteen twenty-something.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • She always carries herself with an air of primness that makes others feel uncomfortable.

  • His primness at the party made him stand out as an outsider among the more relaxed guests.

  • The teacher's primness was evident in her carefully constructed lesson plans and strict classroom rules.

Synonyms

modesty
vsprimness
15 3.8

Dressing or behaving to avoid attracting attention and not show off

is more formal and affected, showing exaggerated propriety
solemnity
vsprimness
  • Formal
9 7.0

A serious, formal feeling that shows respect

is often proper and modest but usually less about solemn seriousness
gentility
vsprimness
4 7.9

Polite and elegant behavior that shows high social standing

is more about strict proper modesty and formality, not elegance
Grundyism
vsprimness
  • Formal
9.9

A strict, often showy concern about appearing proper in public

is broader and not limited to strict conservative social rules
prissiness
vsprimness
  • Informal
7.5

A habit of being too proper and easily offended by normal behavior

is more about formal, affected propriety rather than quick moral offense
priggishness
vsprimness
  • Offensive
9.9

A way of behaving that is too proper and judges others for small mistakes

is similar but focuses on appearance and manners without moral smugness
demureness
vsprimness
7.7

A shy, modest way of behaving that shows being quiet and polite

is more affected and formal rather than genuinely quiet reserve
modestness
vsprimness
3.7

Being humble and not showing pride in yourself

is outwardly formal and proper, focusing on behavior not inner humility

Antonyms

impropriety
  • Formal
16 8.0

Behavior that is not socially acceptable

4 4.9

A relaxed, casual way of behaving without strict rules

How Proper

prudishness
1 8.4
primness
1 7.7
propriety
  • Formal
27 7.4
informality
4 4.9

Surface Forms

primness singular
primnesses plural

Morphology

primness = prim (transparent) = prim + ness

Direct and regular noun formation from the adjective 'prim' by the productive suffix '-ness', so the meaning is predictable from the base.

Etymology

The word primness comes from prim, a short word that once linked to the idea of being 'first' or 'prime', the same basic idea you see in prime. So primness means having very neat, correct, and careful manners — often so much that someone seems stiff.