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gentility

gentility

4 7.9
Polite and elegant behavior that shows high social standing
  • noun
  • /dʒɛnˈtɪlɪti/
translation icon : gentileza
  • The gentility of the old neighborhood was reflected in the well-kept gardens and charming architecture.
  • gentility and refinement
  • Victorian gentility

Examples

  • "Mr. Elstree is somewhat older than you, but he's a model of courtesy and gentility."

    Fiction book (1993)
  • A gathering point for local society, it blends gentility and old-world charm with a leading-edge spa and innovative cuisine.

    Blog text (19)
  • Your sweet gentility is crystal clear

  • Her skills as a draftsman appear here in part as testimony to her gentility.

    Academic text (2011)
  • It was a land of prosperity, gentility and appreciation of freedom which my father valued above all else.

  • The idea of a marriage of the Sullivan money and the Pettigrus' gentility was widely approved and even applauded.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • The cadence of their speech and the gentility of their political arguments were even then relics of a bygone age.

    Blog text (19)
  • Reticence, Virginia, is the sine qua non of gentility.

  • While Dilsey served at the discretion of the Compson family, Faulkner portrays her as the embodiment of the gentility, grace, and compassion by which these same aristocrats understood themselves.

    Academic text (2009)
  • Her gentility was evident in the way she greeted everyone with a warm smile and polite words.

Synonyms

class
vsgentility
690 4.8

A polite, stylish way of acting or dressing

is narrower on social superiority expressed through polite manner
manners
vsgentility
248 1.0

Polite ways of behaving toward other people, like saying please and thank you

emphasizes refined elegance and a sense of social superiority
grace
vsgentility
172 2.6

A smooth, attractive way of moving or behaving

focuses more on polite social behaviour and status than movement
elegance
vsgentility
47 3.5

A graceful, stylish way of looking or behaving that shows good taste

stresses polite, socially superior manner rather than just appearance
politeness
vsgentility
26 1.3

Showing good manners and respect to other people

adds an element of social elegance and perceived superiority
breeding
vsgentility
24 6.7

Polite manners learned from family or education

relies less on origin and more on elegant social manner itself
graciousness
vsgentility
6 4.1

Being kind, polite, and generous to other people

leans more toward social refinement and high social standing
urbanity
vsgentility
  • Formal
1 7.9

A polite, calm, and stylish way of behaving common in cities

is broader, covering polite superiority beyond urban cultural style
grace and poise
vsgentility
1 3.9

A calm, elegant way of moving and behaving

focuses more on polite social refinement and perceived superiority
classiness
vsgentility
1 4.1

A quality of being elegant, stylish, and showing good taste

places more weight on traditional politeness and refined manner
politesse
vsgentility
  • Formal
1 9.9

Formal good manners and speech that shows respect for others

covers broader graceful manner and social superiority beyond formality
suavity
vsgentility
1 9.1

Smooth, polite behavior that makes people feel comfortable

is more about genuine refined social standing and manner than charm
decorousness
vsgentility
  • Formal
1 8.4

A polite way of behaving that follows social rules

is more concerned with graceful refinement and elevated social manner
courtliness
vsgentility
  • Literature
1 8.1

Polite and elegant behavior like people at a royal court

is broader, covering polite refinement across many social contexts
genteelness
vsgentility
8.5

A polite, graceful way of behaving, speaking, and dressing

is identical in meaning but may be used as the standard term
poshness
vsgentility
  • Informal
6.3

A style that seems elegant and upper class

emphasizes polite refinement and graceful social behaviour rather than status
suaveness
vsgentility
7.3

A smooth, charming way of behaving that makes people feel relaxed

focuses more on true polite refinement and social superiority
courteousness
vsgentility
3.5

A polite way of behaving that shows respect for other people

is more about graceful, refined manner tied to social status
seemliness
vsgentility
  • Formal
8.9

Good behaviour that follows social rules and shows respect for others

leans more toward elegant refinement and higher social polish

Antonyms

27 1.8

Lack of politeness or respect for other people

vulgarity
  • NSFW
18 7.4

A lack of good taste and politeness in speech or behavior

How Refined

elegance
47 3.5
refinement
10 5.9
gentility
4 7.9
civility
71 4.2
crudeness
  • NSFW
1 6.3

Surface Forms

gentility singular
gentilities plural

Morphology

gentility = genteel (semi-transparent) = genteel + ity

Derived historically from the same root as 'genteel' and meaning the quality of being genteel, but the form and relation to 'gentle' can confuse learners.

Etymology

The word gentility comes from the Latin gens meaning 'family' or 'clan' and from gentilis meaning 'of the family' or 'noble'. Like gentle and gentleman, it came to mean polite, refined behaviour and a sense of social standing.