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to pleasure oneself

to pleasure oneself

1 9.8
To touch your own sexual parts to feel pleasure
  • phrasal verb
  • Offensive
translation icon : masturbarse
  • Learning how to pleasure oneself can help individuals understand their own desires better.

Examples

  • You couldn't just pleasure yourself with novels.

    Academic text (2009)
  • In private, she sometimes chooses to pleasure oneself rather than seeking intimacy with a partner.

  • It's like a, if one wants to pleasure oneself while driving.

  • So from time to time, I like to pleasure myself with a vibrator.

  • If there's one thing I've proven it's that you can count on me to pleasure myself.

  • Amanda smiled and said perhaps they could borrow a man for a night or two, seeing as I had enough to pleasure myself, and then some.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • I pleasure myself constantly with it, and sex with my wife is like eating breakfast—a chore.

    Blog text (19)
  • Many people find it natural to pleasure oneself as a way to explore their own bodies.

Synonyms

to masturbate
vsto pleasure oneself
  • Offensive
98 7.7

Touch your own private parts for sexual pleasure

is framed as indulgent self-gratification rather than a neutral clinical act
to touch oneself
vsto pleasure oneself
  • Offensive
14 9.8

To touch your own private parts for sexual pleasure

focuses on indulgent satisfaction rather than also meaning quiet thought
to gratify
vsto pleasure oneself
11 4.6

To please someone or make them feel happy

is specifically about self indulgence and often sexual rather than general pleasing
to play with oneself
vsto pleasure oneself
  • Offensive
3 9.1

To touch your own private parts to feel sexual pleasure

is more openly about indulgent private sexual pleasure rather than softened language

Antonyms

18 5.0

To choose not to take something, often for health or religious reasons

How Sexual

orgasm
  • Offensive
115 6.7
to pleasure oneself
  • Offensive
1 9.8
to touch oneself
  • Offensive
14 9.8

Surface Forms

pleasure oneself infinitive
pleasured oneself past participle
pleasuring oneself present participle
pleasures oneself third person singular

Morphology

pleasure + oneself

The phrase literally means 'to give pleasure to oneself', so a learner who knows 'pleasure' and the reflexive 'oneself' can infer a general sense of self-gratification. However, the specific sexual/masturbatory sense and the less common verb usage of 'pleasure' are not fully predictable for a B1 learner and could be read non-sexually (e.g., 'to enjoy oneself'), so the expression is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Pleasure oneself is a polite way to talk about giving pleasure to your own body. The image of pleasure and oneself together makes clear why it is used as a gentle term for 'masturbate'.