to play with oneself
- phrasal verb
- Offensive
- He often chooses to play with himself when he feels lonely at home.
Examples
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Have you tried playing with yourself? You mean Bill?
Fiction book (1998) -
When no one else is around, some people might play with themselves for pleasure.
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And from now on, stop playing with yourself!
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Well, go ahead and play with yourself.
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Quit playing with yourself back there.
Fiction book (1990) -
"And you can play with yourself," she added, as he reached for his exposed penis.
Fiction book (1990) -
He plays with himself in the tub.
Fiction book (1992) -
You playing with yourself?
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- There's masturbation, - Masturbation, play with yourself.
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You're playin' with yourself.
Synonyms
Touch your own private parts for sexual pleasure
To touch your own private parts for sexual pleasure
To touch your own private parts to get sexual pleasure
To touch your own sexual parts to feel pleasure
Surface Forms
Morphology
The components 'play' + 'with' + 'oneself' literally indicate a self-directed playful action, so a learner could infer that it involves interacting with one's own body. However, the specific sense 'to masturbate' is a euphemistic, pragmatic extension (sexual meaning) that is not strictly predictable from the literal words and depends on social/idiomatic knowledge, making it only partially transparent to a B1 learner.
Etymology
Play with oneself comes from the simple image of someone doing play alone and touching their own body (oneself) in private for pleasure. So it means 'to masturbate'.