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to play with oneself

to play with oneself

3 9.1
To touch your own private parts to feel sexual pleasure
  • phrasal verb
  • Offensive
translation icon : masturbarse
  • He often chooses to play with himself when he feels lonely at home.

Examples

  • Have you tried playing with yourself? You mean Bill?

    Fiction book (1998)
  • When no one else is around, some people might play with themselves for pleasure.

  • And from now on, stop playing with yourself!

  • Well, go ahead and play with yourself.

  • Quit playing with yourself back there.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • "And you can play with yourself," she added, as he reached for his exposed penis.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • He plays with himself in the tub.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • You playing with yourself?

  • - There's masturbation, - Masturbation, play with yourself.

  • You're playin' with yourself.

Synonyms

to masturbate
vsto play with oneself
  • Offensive
98 7.7

Touch your own private parts for sexual pleasure

is a euphemism used instead of this explicit clinical label
to touch oneself
vsto play with oneself
  • Offensive
14 9.8

To touch your own private parts for sexual pleasure

is the euphemistic phrase used specifically for sexual self-stimulation
to wank
vsto play with oneself
  • Offensive
5 9.9

To touch your own private parts to get sexual pleasure

is a polite or indirect way to describe that act
to pleasure oneself
vsto play with oneself
  • Offensive
1 9.8

To touch your own sexual parts to feel pleasure

is a euphemistic expression used instead of blunt sexual words

Surface Forms

play with oneself infinitive
played with oneself past participle
playing with oneself present participle
plays with oneself third person singular

Morphology

play + with + oneself

The components 'play' + 'with' + 'oneself' literally indicate a self-directed playful action, so a learner could infer that it involves interacting with one's own body. However, the specific sense 'to masturbate' is a euphemistic, pragmatic extension (sexual meaning) that is not strictly predictable from the literal words and depends on social/idiomatic knowledge, making it only partially transparent to a B1 learner.

Etymology

Play with oneself comes from the simple image of someone doing play alone and touching their own body (oneself) in private for pleasure. So it means 'to masturbate'.