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to lord over

to lord over

8 7.5
To treat other people as if you are better than them
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
translation icon : dominar
  • Your yearning shall be for your husband, yet he will lord it over you.

It all flows back, and it flows back because the ocean doesn't Lord itself over anyone.

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Examples

  • You're not lording it over them as you might be doing if you're contradicting them.

  • Many of us went on to become college professors and thus gained power in the classroom, where we could lord it over those who were not like us.

    Academic text (2011)
  • And because she would not let him force her or lord it over her, she forced herself and said, "OK, if you want."

    Fiction book (1996)
  • And the way he lords over me.

  • Wealthy narcissists will use that money to Lord over other people.

  • You get the idea that they're lording it over us a bit, you know?

  • Neither should seek to lord it over the other or to claim superiority by dint of size, population, or past performance.

    Academic text (1991)
  • Then he was embarrassed and apologized to me as if afraid I thought he was lording it over me.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • You're the only guy in town who doesn't have sun-bleached hair, and all you do is lord it over us white guys.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • Wealthy narcissists will use that money to lord over other people.

Synonyms

to command
vsto lord over
307 2.7

To give orders and control people or things

is more about personal superiority and attitude than formal authority
to dominate
vsto lord over
48 3.7

To rise above a place and be clearly visible from around it

is more about acting superior toward people than holding a position
to boss
vsto lord over
48 3.1

To tell other people what to do in a rude way

is similar but focuses on superior attitude rather than neutral command
to boss around
vsto lord over
  • Informal
37 4.5

Tell people what to do in a rude way when you have no right

shares bossy behaviour but not necessarily the lack of rightful authority
to rule over
vsto lord over
23 4.2

To be in charge of people or a place

is the same superiority but usually shows attitude rather than formal rule
to lord it over
vsto lord over
  • Informal
6 8.2

Act as if you are better than other people

is the same idea of treating others as inferior rather than formal control
to domineer
vsto lord over
2 8.8

To boss other people around and not let them speak

is the same superiority but less focused on harsh, forceful assertion
to act superior
vsto lord over
1 6.7

Behave as if you are better than other people

is more about active domination rather than mainly a superior attitude
to queen it over
vsto lord over
  • UK
9.9

Behave as if others are less important

is similar but frames the attitude as general superiority rather than presiding style
to act like a tsar
vsto lord over
  • Informal
8.9

Behave like a king and ignore other people's ideas

is similar but can be less about formal autocracy and more attitude
to show who's boss
vsto lord over
  • Informal
7.7

To make others see you are in charge

is the same domination but often expressed as a steady superior attitude

Antonyms

1.7

To work for someone or act in an official role, often in the military

187 4.1

To accept another person's control, often against your wishes

How Domineering

to tyrannize
  • US
2 8.4
to domineer
2 8.8
to lord over
  • Informal
8 7.5
to patronize
  • Offensive
52 7.0
to look down on
  • Offensive
53 3.7

Surface Forms

lord over infinitive
lorded over past participle
lording over present participle
lords over third person singular

Morphology

lord + over

The meaning is motivated by the constituents: 'lord' denotes a person with authority and 'over' conveys dominance or superiority, so the sense 'to act dominantly toward others' is derivable from the parts. However, the construction relies on converting a noun to a verb and a conventional collocational pattern (to X over someone), so the sense is somewhat metaphorical and may not be fully predictable to all B1 learners without exposure.

Etymology

The verb lord over may come from the image of a powerful lord standing above people and giving orders, with over showing that 'above' position. So to lord over someone today means 'to act as if you are better than others'.