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to keep one's temper

to keep one's temper

1 4.4
Stay calm and not get angry in a difficult situation
  • idiom
translation icon : mantener la calma
  • Keep your temper now, lad.
  • keep his temper in check
  • keep his temper under control

Examples

  • When confronted with criticism, he found it difficult to keep his temper under control.

  • Scarlett kept her temper, but her eyes were dangerously bright.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • I kept my temper and merely asked to be shown the error of my ways.

  • "Edward struggled to keep his temper in check."

    Fiction book (2000)
  • I don't know how you kept your temper just now, sir.

  • He kept his temper and asked the next question.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Keep your temper.

  • Nkosi's frown was deeper now, but he kept his temper well in check.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • "Catch this!" Joze said through clenched teeth, forcing himself to keep his temper.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • He struggled to keep his temper while waiting for the slow service at the restaurant.

Synonyms

to stay in control
vsto keep one's temper
  • US
264 3.7

Keep power over a situation and stay calm

often means not becoming angry rather than keeping control of a situation
to hold it together
vsto keep one's temper
  • Informal
61 5.6

Stay calm and control your feelings in a difficult situation

places emphasis on not becoming angry rather than merely staying controlled
to cool it
vsto keep one's temper
  • Informal
55 6.2

To calm down and stop being angry or excited

means staying calm and avoiding anger rather than calming down afterwards
to keep one's cool
vsto keep one's temper
  • Informal
30 3.4

Stay calm and control your feelings when things are hard

aims more at not becoming angry than general emotional control
to keep it together
vsto keep one's temper
  • Informal
27 5.4

To stay calm and control your feelings in a difficult situation

focuses specifically on preventing anger rather than general emotional management
to play it cool
vsto keep one's temper
  • Informal
27 4.5

Act calm and relaxed to hide nervousness

aims more at not becoming angry than projecting composed social calm
to keep a cool head
vsto keep one's temper
3 3.9

Stay calm and not get angry or excited in a difficult situation

focuses on avoiding anger rather than avoiding excitement
to hold one's nerve
vsto keep one's temper
  • Informal
5.5

To stay calm and in control during a difficult situation

focuses more on avoiding anger than on steady emotional control
to keep one's head
vsto keep one's temper
4.6

Stay calm and think clearly in a difficult or dangerous situation

focuses on avoiding anger rather than on clear thinking under pressure

Antonyms

To suddenly become very angry and not be able to control yourself

How Calm

to keep one's cool
  • Informal
30 3.4
to keep one's temper
1 4.4
to play it cool
  • Informal
27 4.5

Surface Forms

keep one's temper infinitive
keeping one's temper present participle
keeps one's temper third person singular
kept one's temper past participle

Morphology

keep + one + temper

The meaning 'to remain calm and not become angry' is directly derivable from the constituents: 'keep' (retain), 'one's' (possessive) and 'temper' (anger), so the phrase literally means to retain control of one's anger. This verb + object composition is common and cross-linguistically transparent, so a B1 learner who knows the words should be able to infer the MWE's meaning.

Etymology

Keep one's temper paints a picture of holding a small, hot fire inside, the temper, without letting it flare up. That's why it means 'to stay calm' and not show anger.