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to get off one's chest

to get off one's chest

9 6.0
Talk about something worrying you so you feel better
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : desahogarse
  • You sound like you got something you need to get off your chest.
  • want to get off your chest
  • need to get off my chest
  • like to get off your chest

Examples

  • There's something I have to get off my chest before we die.

  • Guys, there's something I need to get off my chest.

  • Got something I gotta get off my chest with you, man.

  • You still had a few things to get off your chest.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • Anything else you want to get off your chest?

    Blog text (1)
  • I'm not leaving until I get off my chest what I need to say.

  • Moe, there are some things I gotta get off my chest.

  • I've really been meaning to get off my chest.

  • Well, there's a couple of things that I'd like to get off my chest.

  • I need to meet with you because I have something important to get off my chest.

Synonyms

to open up
vsto get off one's chest
  • Informal
149 2.9

Begin to talk honestly about your thoughts and feelings

is focused on speaking about a particular worry to feel relieved
to clear the air
vsto get off one's chest
  • Informal
24 4.1

Help people stop feeling angry or worried by talking about the problem

aims at relieving a personal worry rather than fixing mutual misunderstandings
to blow off steam
vsto get off one's chest
  • Informal
14 3.5

Do something active, like go for a run, to feel less angry or stressed

involves specifically talking about a bothering issue to gain relief
to pour one's heart out
vsto get off one's chest
  • Informal
8 6.4

Talk openly about your deepest feelings when you feel upset

is more about relieving a specific worry rather than deep emotion
to unburden
vsto get off one's chest
6 4.9

To remove a heavy load from someone, physical or emotional, often by talking

focuses specifically on speaking to feel relieved from worry
to spill one's guts
vsto get off one's chest
  • Informal
5 8.1

To tell someone your private feelings or secrets openly

is less about exposing everything and more about easing a worry
to have a quiet word
vsto get off one's chest
2 6.0

To speak to someone in private about something sensitive

is about talking to ease personal worry, not only discreet discussion
to give vent
vsto get off one's chest
1 6.5

To express strong feelings such as anger or sadness

is narrower, aiming to talk about a worry to feel relieved
to broach someone's concerns
vsto get off one's chest
1 7.0

To tell someone about worries or problems

focuses on talking to feel personally relieved rather than just raising topics
to unload one's thoughts
vsto get off one's chest
  • Informal
4.8

To tell someone or write down your thoughts to feel better

emphasizes talking to remove a persistent worry causing relief
to dump one's load
vsto get off one's chest
  • Informal
8.8

Talk to someone to let out strong feelings or worries

targets speaking about a specific bothering issue to gain relief

Antonyms

88 5.8

To hold back feelings or reactions

24 5.6

To keep strong feelings inside instead of telling others

How Relieved

to get off one's chest
  • Informal
9 6.0
to open up
  • Informal
149 2.9
to talk
1.0

Surface Forms

get off one's chest infinitive
getting off one's chest present participle
gets off one's chest third person singular
got off one's chest past participle

Morphology

get + off + one + chest

The parts 'get off' (to remove or take away) and 'one's chest' (a body region) create an image of removing something from the chest, so learners can partly infer a sense of relief or removal of a burden. However, understanding that this specifically means 'talk about a worry to feel relieved' requires grasping the bodily-weight metaphor and idiomatic mapping, which is not fully predictable for a B1 learner.

Etymology

Get off one's chest comes from the picture of something heavy sitting on your chest, and to get it off your chest is to lift that weight away. When you talk about a worry or secret, it is like lifting that weight, so you feel 'relieved'.