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to give someone the brush-off

to give someone the brush-off

2 7.5
To reject someone quickly and rudely
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
translation icon : dar la espalda
  • It's clear that my friends are going to give him the brush-off after what he said last night.

Examples

  • I was disappointed when he decided to give me the brush-off instead of discussing the project.

  • Nearby, Benny sees this meeting and walks off, disgusted, thinking this is why Jean gave him the brush-off.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • We're going to give her the brush off.

  • The whole family is giving me the brush-off.

  • All that time, and after four hours in high school, I was giving him the brush-off.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • I say don't give me the brush-off.

  • Your buddy, Bianchi keeps giving me the brush-off.

  • She just keeps giving me the brush-off.

  • It sounded like he was giving me the brush-off.

  • -CARL: Hey, don’t you try to give me the brush off.

Synonyms

to dismiss
vsto give someone the brush-off
332 3.0

To refuse to accept an idea or claim

is a quicker, ruder form of that refusal with unfriendly tone
to shrug off
vsto give someone the brush-off
27 3.9

Treat something as unimportant and ignore it

is an active unfriendly rejection aimed at a person rather than ignoring effects
to spurn
vsto give someone the brush-off
26 7.7

To refuse a person or an offer in a rude way

is similar but focuses on a short, unfriendly dismissal rather than moral contempt
to brush off
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
22 3.9

To ignore what someone says or feels as unimportant

is harsher and more unfriendly than a casual ignoring
to rebuff
vsto give someone the brush-off
18 7.7

To say no to someone or their offer in a quick rude way

is similarly brusque but emphasizes unfriendly dismissal rather than tone only
to turn away from
vsto give someone the brush-off
15 3.7

To refuse to have anything to do with someone or something

is a quick unfriendly dismissal rather than an ongoing refusal
to brush aside
vsto give someone the brush-off
13 4.5

Ignore a person or thing because you think they are not important

is more blunt and unfriendly, aiming to dismiss rather than downplay
to kick someone to the curb
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
12 9.4

Suddenly stop seeing or talking to someone

is the same kind of refusal but usually less about long-term removal
to snub
vsto give someone the brush-off
7 6.3

To ignore someone on purpose to show disrespect

is the same refusal but highlights a curt, unfriendly manner
to give the heave-ho
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
4 8.5

To tell someone to leave their job or to stop using something

is similar but more about a curt personal rejection rather than removal
to wave away
vsto give someone the brush-off
4 5.3

Treat a question or problem as not important

is more directly unfriendly and aimed at a person rather than an idea
to repel
vsto give someone the brush-off
3 4.8

Refuse a request or offer in a blunt way

is similar but carries a more personal unfriendly dismissal
to kiss off
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Offensive
2 8.7

Reject someone or something rudely and tell them to go away

matches this tone but is more about a quick unfriendly refusal
to wave off
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
2 5.9

Treat something as unimportant and ignore it

is warmer in focus but more curt and unfriendly toward a person
to pass up
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
1 4.7

To ignore someone you meet by pretending not to see them

is more deliberate and brusque, intending open rejection
to freeze off
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
1 8.5

Treat someone in a cold way and ignore them to show dislike

is also cold and curt but stresses a brief unfriendly brush-off
to cold-shoulder
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
1 7.7

To ignore someone on purpose to show you are angry or unfriendly

is similar but focuses more on a short unfriendly dismissal than prolonged ignoring
to give the elbow
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • UK
9.0

To end a relationship or stop someone from working for you

is a brief unfriendly dismissal often without formal reason
to give the mitten
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Archaic
9.9

To end a relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend

is similar but applies generally to a quick unfriendly rebuff
to wave one's hand dismissively
vsto give someone the brush-off
6.7

To move your hand to show you do not care

is verbal or acted dismissal rather than only a visible gesture

Antonyms

793 1.0

To take something someone offers, for example a gift or invitation

583 1.0

Greet someone in a friendly way when they arrive

How Dismissive

to shun
26 4.6
to snub
7 6.3
to give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
2 7.5
to cold-shoulder
  • Informal
1 7.7
to ignore
1.0

Surface Forms

Morphology

give + someone + the + brush-off

The core meaning comes from the phrasal verb 'brush off' (brush + off) meaning to ignore or dismiss, so a learner who knows 'give', 'someone', 'brush' and 'off' can probably infer it denotes rejecting or dismissing someone. However, the nominalised idiom 'the brush-off' and the specific nuance of a brusque/unfriendly dismissal are somewhat conventionalized and idiomatic, so the meaning is not fully predictable without prior exposure.

Etymology

The idiom give someone the brush-off may come from the simple image of using a brush to sweep dust off your coat or to brush a person away, showing you want them gone. So, to 'give someone the brush-off' means 'to reject' someone in a cold, unfriendly way.