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to give someone the brush-off

to give someone the brush-off

2 7.5
To reject someone quickly and rudely
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
: dar la espalda
  • It's clear that my friends are going to give him the brush-off after what he said last night.

Examples

  • I was disappointed when he decided to give me the brush-off instead of discussing the project.

  • Nearby, Benny sees this meeting and walks off, disgusted, thinking this is why Jean gave him the brush-off.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • We're going to give her the brush off.

  • The whole family is giving me the brush-off.

  • All that time, and after four hours in high school, I was giving him the brush-off.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • I say don't give me the brush-off.

  • Your buddy, Bianchi keeps giving me the brush-off.

  • She just keeps giving me the brush-off.

  • It sounded like he was giving me the brush-off.

  • -CARL: Hey, don’t you try to give me the brush off.

Synonyms

to dismiss
vsto give someone the brush-off
296 3.0

To refuse to accept an idea or claim

is a quicker, ruder form of that refusal with unfriendly tone
to turn away from
vsto give someone the brush-off
65 3.7

To refuse to have anything to do with someone or something

is a quick unfriendly dismissal rather than an ongoing refusal
to shrug off
vsto give someone the brush-off
32 3.9

Treat something as unimportant and ignore it

is an active unfriendly rejection aimed at a person rather than ignoring effects
to brush off
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
29 3.9

To ignore what someone says or feels as unimportant

is harsher and more unfriendly than a casual ignoring
to snub
vsto give someone the brush-off
28 6.3

To ignore someone on purpose to show disrespect

is the same refusal but highlights a curt, unfriendly manner
to rebuff
vsto give someone the brush-off
22 7.7

To say no to someone or their offer in a quick rude way

is similarly brusque but emphasizes unfriendly dismissal rather than tone only
to spurn
vsto give someone the brush-off
18 7.7

To refuse a person or an offer in a rude way

is similar but focuses on a short, unfriendly dismissal rather than moral contempt
to brush aside
vsto give someone the brush-off
11 4.5

Ignore a person or thing because you think they are not important

is more blunt and unfriendly, aiming to dismiss rather than downplay
to kiss off
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Offensive
7 8.7

Reject someone or something rudely and tell them to go away

matches this tone but is more about a quick unfriendly refusal
to give the heave-ho
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
6 8.5

To tell someone to leave their job or to stop using something

is similar but more about a curt personal rejection rather than removal
to wave away
vsto give someone the brush-off
5 5.3

Treat a question or problem as not important

is more directly unfriendly and aimed at a person rather than an idea
to wave off
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
4 5.9

Treat something as unimportant and ignore it

is warmer in focus but more curt and unfriendly toward a person
to pass up
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
2 4.7

To ignore someone you meet by pretending not to see them

is more deliberate and brusque, intending open rejection
to freeze off
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
1 8.5

Treat someone in a cold way and ignore them to show dislike

is also cold and curt but stresses a brief unfriendly brush-off
to repel
vsto give someone the brush-off
1 4.8

Refuse a request or offer in a blunt way

is similar but carries a more personal unfriendly dismissal
to cold-shoulder
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
1 7.7

To ignore someone on purpose to show you are angry or unfriendly

is similar but focuses more on a short unfriendly dismissal than prolonged ignoring
to give the elbow
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • UK
1 9.0

To end a relationship or stop someone from working for you

is a brief unfriendly dismissal often without formal reason
to wave one's hand dismissively
vsto give someone the brush-off
1 6.7

To move your hand to show you do not care

is verbal or acted dismissal rather than only a visible gesture
to give the mitten
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Archaic
9.9

To end a relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend

is similar but applies generally to a quick unfriendly rebuff
to kick someone to the curb
vsto give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
9.4

Suddenly stop seeing or talking to someone

is the same kind of refusal but usually less about long-term removal

Antonyms

∞ 1.0

Greet someone in a friendly way when they arrive

∞ 1.0

To take something someone offers, for example a gift or invitation

How Dismissive

to shun
72 4.6
to snub
28 6.3
to give someone the brush-off
  • Informal
2 7.5
to cold-shoulder
  • Informal
1 7.7
to ignore
∞ 1.0

Surface Forms

Morphology

give + someone + the + brush-off

The core meaning comes from the phrasal verb 'brush off' (brush + off) meaning to ignore or dismiss, so a learner who knows 'give', 'someone', 'brush' and 'off' can probably infer it denotes rejecting or dismissing someone. However, the nominalised idiom 'the brush-off' and the specific nuance of a brusque/unfriendly dismissal are somewhat conventionalized and idiomatic, so the meaning is not fully predictable without prior exposure.

Etymology

The idiom give someone the brush-off may come from the simple image of using a brush to sweep dust off your coat or to brush a person away, showing you want them gone. So, to 'give someone the brush-off' means 'to reject' someone in a cold, unfriendly way.