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to fly off

to fly off

7 5.3
To suddenly get very angry without warning
  • phrasal verb
  • /flaɪ ɔf/
  • Informal
translation icon : perder los estribos
  • Young people fly off the handle.
  • fly off the handle

But then if he does the same, oh, you, you, you go fly off the handle.

Examples

  • When Stacey is practicing mindfully and a colleague or opponent flies off the handle, she tries to simply notice the feelings that come up for her without responding reflexively.

    Academic text (1999)
  • You flew off the handle...

  • We meet people who fly off the handle, we meet people who shut down.

  • There you go again, Horse: flying off the handle.

  • And he probably will say something like that to get you to fly off the handle and say something rash.

  • Don't go flying off the handle.

  • Don't fly off the handle!

  • He flies off the handle sometimes, but we're good friends.

  • Don't let it! Smile even when you're in a hurry, and don't fly off the handle at honest mistakes.

    Blog text (28)
  • I knew he would fly off the handle if I mentioned his mistake.

Synonyms

to explode
vsto fly off
187 3.5

To suddenly show a strong feeling, often anger

is sudden anger or upset specifically rather than any strong emotion
to flip
vsto fly off
  • Informal
143 7.5

To suddenly become very angry, excited, or surprised

is sudden anger or upset rather than general emotional loss of control
to flip out
vsto fly off
  • Informal
49 7.2

To suddenly lose control and become very angry or upset

is sudden anger or upset that is focused on anger rather than excitement
to go berserk
vsto fly off
  • Informal
27 7.7

To become very angry and act out of control

is sudden anger or upset that is usually less violent or frenzied
to go ballistic
vsto fly off
  • Informal
22 7.5

Suddenly become very angry

is sudden anger or upset that can be intense but less extreme
to throw a tantrum
vsto fly off
  • Informal
18 4.4

To show sudden strong anger or upset, often like a child

is sudden anger or upset not necessarily childish or dramatic
to blow up
vsto fly off
  • Informal
16 4.7

To suddenly become very angry and lose control

is sudden anger or upset that may not be explosively expressed
to have a fit
vsto fly off
  • Informal
16 5.3

To suddenly become very angry or upset and show it strongly

is sudden anger or upset that may be less visibly dramatic
to go off the deep end
vsto fly off
  • Informal
15 8.1

Suddenly act in a very emotional and out of control way

is sudden anger or upset without necessarily becoming irrational or extreme
to throw a fit
vsto fly off
  • Informal
12 6.1

To suddenly become very angry or upset in a loud, obvious way

is sudden anger or upset that may occur without dramatic display
to fly off the handle
vsto fly off
  • Informal
11 6.8

To suddenly become very angry

is the shorter form that means sudden strong anger
to see red
vsto fly off
  • Informal
10 6.8

To become very angry suddenly

is sudden anger or upset that may be less intensely furious
to boil over
vsto fly off
  • Informal
7 4.8

To suddenly lose control and show strong anger

is sudden anger or upset that often occurs without a long build up
to hit the roof
vsto fly off
  • Informal
4 6.7

To suddenly become very angry

is sudden anger or upset without that vivid metaphor
to hit the ceiling
vsto fly off
  • Informal
3 6.8

To suddenly get very angry

is sudden anger or upset without the vivid metaphorical image
to lose one's temper
vsto fly off
2 3.7

To suddenly become very angry and not be able to control yourself

is sudden anger or upset that may not cause total loss of control
to blow one's stack
vsto fly off
  • Informal
2 8.6

Suddenly get very angry and show it

is sudden anger or upset that may be quieter or internal
to go batshit
vsto fly off
  • Offensive
2 9.9

To become very angry and act in a wild, out of control way

is sudden anger or upset that is less about irrational craziness
to raise the roof
vsto fly off
  • Informal
1 8.0

Get very angry and shout loudly

is sudden anger or upset that may be quieter or less forceful
to blow a fuse
vsto fly off
  • Informal
1 7.4

To suddenly become very angry

is sudden anger or upset that can be milder than full rage
to pop off
vsto fly off
  • Informal
1 8.1

To suddenly say something angry without warning

is sudden anger or upset that may not involve abrupt speech
to go off on one
vsto fly off
  • UK
1 9.9

To suddenly get very angry and speak loudly for a long time

is sudden anger or upset usually brief rather than prolonged speech
to flip your lid
vsto fly off
  • Informal
1 8.6

To suddenly become very angry and lose control

is sudden anger or upset that may not always include loss of control
to flip shit
vsto fly off
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To suddenly become very angry

is sudden anger or upset that may be less crude in expression
to blow one's top
vsto fly off
  • Informal
8.0

To suddenly become very angry

is sudden anger or upset that may be less extreme or loud
to flip one's lid
vsto fly off
  • Informal
9.1

To become suddenly very angry and lose control

is sudden anger or upset that may not involve full loss of control
to flip one's wig
vsto fly off
  • Informal
9.9

To suddenly become very angry and lose control of yourself

is sudden anger that may be less extreme and not involve losing control
to flip the bitch switch
vsto fly off
  • Offensive
9.9

To suddenly become very angry and behave in a mean way

is sudden anger or upset that may be less aggressive or intentionally cruel
to throw a snit
vsto fly off
  • Informal
8.7

To suddenly become very angry or upset and act childishly

is sudden anger or upset without implying childish behaviour
to throw a wobbly
vsto fly off
  • UK
9.9

To become suddenly very angry and upset in a dramatic way

is sudden anger or upset that may not be dramatic or theatrical
to lose one's cool
vsto fly off
  • Informal
5.9

To suddenly become very angry and fail to control your feelings

is sudden anger or upset often without warning rather than only under stress

Antonyms

to calm down
  • Informal
594 1.4

To become less angry, excited, or upset

27 5.4

To stay calm and control your feelings in a difficult situation

How Angry

to explode
187 3.5
to fly off
  • Informal
7 5.3
annoyed
77 1.0
to upset
362 1.0

Surface Forms

fly off infinitive
flying off present participle
flies off third person singular
flew off past
flown off past participle

Morphology

fly + off

The literal parts 'fly' (move quickly) + 'off' (away) yield a sense of sudden departure or abrupt change, which can be metaphorically extended to losing control of one's temper. However, the specific sense 'suddenly become very angry' is a figurative extension not directly derivable from the constituents, so a B1 learner who knows the words is unlikely to predict the exact meaning without exposure.

Etymology

Fly off uses the image of fly and off, like a lid or a bird that leaves very quickly. So, the phrase is used when someone 'suddenly becomes very angry or upset'.