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to fend for oneself

to fend for oneself

16 5.6
Look after yourself without help from others
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
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  • After losing her job, she realized she would have to fend for herself financially.

Examples

  • Out there you've got to fend for yourself.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • I can fend for myself.

  • Then you might have to fend for yourself.

  • Like, from here on out, I was gonna have to fend for myself.

  • Folks out here learn to fend for themselves.

  • No thank you, I will fend for myself and do just fine.

    Blog text (6)
  • Turns out, when left to fend for herself, she gets into trouble.

    Blog text (28)
  • I would never abandon you... and leave you to fend for yourself.

  • Williams soon died, leaving his wife to fend for herself financially.

    Academic text (2005)
  • No child should ever be alone, unloved, and left to fend for himself.

    Fiction book (1990)

Synonyms

to go it alone
vsto fend for oneself
  • Informal
26 5.3

To do something without help from other people

is about ongoing self-care rather than a single unaided action
to stand on one's own two feet
vsto fend for oneself
  • Informal
5 4.4

To support yourself without help from other people

is broader covering general self-care not only financial support
to paddle one's own canoe
vsto fend for oneself
  • Archaic
2 7.5

To be independent and take care of yourself without help

is more general meaning overall self-reliance beyond daily tasks

Antonyms

352 1.0

To rely on a person or thing for help

How Independent

to fend for oneself
  • Informal
16 5.6
to depend on
309 1.0

Surface Forms

fend for oneself infinitive
fended for oneself past participle
fending for oneself present participle
fends for oneself third person singular

Morphology

fend + for + oneself

The meaning 'to look after oneself without help' is directly derivable from combining 'fend' (to manage/provide) with the prepositional phrase 'for oneself' indicating doing something on one’s own behalf. This verb + for + oneself pattern is compositional and cross-linguistically common, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent meanings should understand the MWE.

Etymology

Fend for oneself comes from the old verb fend, which meant to push danger away. Imagine a person alone fighting off animals and finding food; they must fend for oneself, so the phrase means 'to look after oneself'.