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to fend for oneself

to fend for oneself

1 5.6
Look after yourself without help from others
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
: arreglárselas
  • After losing her job, she realized she would have to fend for herself financially.

Examples

  • Out there you've got to fend for yourself.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • I can fend for myself.

  • Then you might have to fend for yourself.

  • Like, from here on out, I was gonna have to fend for myself.

  • Folks out here learn to fend for themselves.

  • No thank you, I will fend for myself and do just fine.

    Blog text (6)
  • Turns out, when left to fend for herself, she gets into trouble.

    Blog text (28)
  • I would never abandon you... and leave you to fend for yourself.

  • Williams soon died, leaving his wife to fend for herself financially.

    Academic text (2005)
  • No child should ever be alone, unloved, and left to fend for himself.

    Fiction book (1990)

Synonyms

to go it alone
vsto fend for oneself
  • Informal
32 5.3

To do something without help from other people

is about ongoing self-care rather than a single unaided action
to stand on one's own two feet
vsto fend for oneself
  • Informal
4.4

To support yourself without help from other people

is broader covering general self-care not only financial support
to paddle one's own canoe
vsto fend for oneself
  • Archaic
7.5

To be independent and take care of yourself without help

is more general meaning overall self-reliance beyond daily tasks

Antonyms

490 1.0

To rely on a person or thing for help

How Independent

to fend for oneself
  • Informal
1 5.6
to depend on
477 1.0

Surface Forms

fend for oneself infinitive
fended for oneself past participle
fending for oneself present participle
fends for oneself third person singular

Morphology

fend + for + oneself

The meaning 'to look after oneself without help' is directly derivable from combining 'fend' (to manage/provide) with the prepositional phrase 'for oneself' indicating doing something on one’s own behalf. This verb + for + oneself pattern is compositional and cross-linguistically common, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent meanings should understand the MWE.

Etymology

Fend for oneself comes from the old verb fend, which meant to push danger away. Imagine a person alone fighting off animals and finding food; they must fend for oneself, so the phrase means 'to look after oneself'.