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to drive a wedge

to drive a wedge

13 7.6
To cause people to argue or become divided on purpose
  • idiom
  • /draɪv ə wɛdʒ/
translation icon : sembrar la discordia
  • And now she's trying to drive a wedge between us.
  • drive a wedge between two

This, this problem often drives a wedge between the parents, which again, is very unhelpful.

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Examples

  • Jealousy and resentment drove a wedge between me and Beth as we moved on to other friends.

    Blog text (30)
  • Nevertheless, corporate lawyers are particularly worried that Justice is trying to drive a wedge between companies and employees.

    Academic text (2003)
  • And what we have seen repeatedly with this guy is he wants to create and drive a wedge between parents and children.

  • Was it to drive a wedge between the United States and the greater Islamic world?

    Blog text (27)
  • And because of my toxic thinking, it drove a wedge between me and my husband.

    Blog text (28)
  • Every time people do this stuff, it drives a wedge between Christians and the lost people.

    Blog text (34)
  • But Schmidt knew Wendy, and knew that one wrong word could drive a wedge between them, so he kept his reservations to himself.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • And it is those misgivings that have helped to drive a wedge between two factions of Penn State's Board of Trustees, who sharply disagree about the prudent way forward.

    Academic text (2016)
  • Her constant criticism only serves to drive a wedge between our friendship.

  • The rumors spread by his colleagues attempt to drive a wedge between him and his boss.

Synonyms

to stir up
vsto drive a wedge
48 4.8

To make people feel strong emotions like anger or fear

can cause disagreement but often focuses on feelings not division
to polarize
vsto drive a wedge
  • Literature
23 7.2

Make people or groups divide into two opposing sides

causes disagreement more broadly not only forming two clear sides
to stir the pot
vsto drive a wedge
  • Informal
8 8.0

To cause trouble by saying things to make people argue

aims to create excitement or argument rather than lasting division
to stir trouble
vsto drive a wedge
  • Informal
5 5.3

To cause fights or problems between people on purpose

tends to provoke trouble but not specifically split groups apart
to play off
vsto drive a wedge
3 6.3

To make one person or group compete with another to gain an advantage

causes division without the self-serving manipulation often implied
to inflame tensions
vsto drive a wedge
  • Literature
1 7.4

Make people more angry and cause conflict between groups

causes disagreement often as an initial act not only hostility
to stir shit
vsto drive a wedge
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To say or do things to make others angry and start fights

aims for provocation rather than organizing lasting divisions
to polarize opinions
vsto drive a wedge
  • Literature
7.1

Make people split into groups with opposite views and strong disagreement

causes general disagreement between people rather than formal opinion groups
to hyperpolarize
vsto drive a wedge
9.6

Make opinions or groups become very divided, often in politics

causes division but usually less extreme in separation
to set by the ears
vsto drive a wedge
  • Informal
9.6

To make people argue or fight

causes disagreement intentionally rather than just noisy disturbance
to create friction
vsto drive a wedge
4.6

To cause disagreement between people or groups

causes division more than simple interpersonal tension
to shit-stir
vsto drive a wedge
  • Offensive
9.9

To say or do things that cause arguments and make people angry

creates trouble but not always intended to form opposing camps
to stir up drama
vsto drive a wedge
  • Informal
7.0

To cause trouble between people to get attention

seeks sensational reaction rather than deliberately splitting groups
to put the cat among the pigeons
vsto drive a wedge
  • UK
8.4

To say or do something that causes strong reactions and confusion among people

provokes disturbance but not specifically to divide people into sides
to open a hornets' nest
vsto drive a wedge
  • Informal
7.7

To cause a lot of trouble and anger among people

creates wide trouble but not necessarily intended to create groups

Antonyms

2.1

To join people or things into one group for a shared purpose

38 5.1

To become friendly again after a disagreement

How Divisive

to break up
152 3.4
split
100 4.2
to inflame tensions
  • Literature
1 7.4
to drive a wedge
13 7.6

Surface Forms

drive a wedge infinitive
driving a wedge present participle
drives a wedge third person singular
driven a wedge past participle

Morphology

drive + a + wedge

The literal image of 'drive' (to push) + 'wedge' (a piece used to split things) maps clearly onto the idea of forcing a division between people, so a learner who knows the constituent words can plausibly infer the social meaning. However, this is a metaphorical extension from a physical action to a social relation rather than a strictly compositional, literal meaning, so comprehension may still depend on some exposure or analogy-making.

Etymology

Drive a wedge comes from the image of pushing a thin piece of wood, a wedge, between two boards until they split apart. When you drive the wedge in and the boards separate, the idea became 'to cause disagreement or division' between people.