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to drop by the wayside

to drop by the wayside

1 7.5
Stop taking part because it becomes too difficult
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
translation icon : desistir
  • If you give up during hard times, you will likely drop by the wayside in your journey.

Examples

  • And that is exactly what the PG&E lawyers want—they keep making their fees, dragging out the case, waiting for people to drop by the wayside.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Many students tend to drop by the wayside when they struggle with a difficult subject.

  • ... I'm not going to let those who've been hurt drop by the wayside.

    Blog text (34)
  • He dropped by the wayside, and soft snowflakes fell on his face.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • One of every three people had dropped by the wayside, and those who survived were so low-spirited that they prayed for death.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Larry: We also visit campaign headquarters to get material and get a sampling of each of the candidates in Iowa and New Hampshire before they drop by the wayside.

    Blog text (31)
  • She watched her teammates drop by the wayside as challenges grew tougher during the competition.

Synonyms

to give up
vsto drop by the wayside
1.2

To stop trying to do something or accept defeat

is similar but stresses quitting because of difficulty or defeat
to quit
vsto drop by the wayside
653 1.5

To stop trying when something is too hard

focuses more on stopping participation after struggle rather than general surrender
to drop out
vsto drop by the wayside
214 3.0

To leave a course, competition or group before finishing

is similar but includes stopping progress in many situations, not only programs
to call it quits
vsto drop by the wayside
  • Informal
34 3.9

To stop doing something because you cannot continue or feel you have done enough

implies stopping because of difficulty or failure rather than completion feeling
to throw in
vsto drop by the wayside
  • Informal
29 4.9

Stop trying because you cannot win

is broader, covering leaving progress or participation beyond contests
to throw in the towel
vsto drop by the wayside
  • Informal
27 4.8

To stop trying because you know you cannot succeed

covers stopping participation due to difficulty but not only admitted defeat moments
to fall by the wayside
vsto drop by the wayside
  • Informal
11 6.5

Stop taking part or trying because of problems

stops for reasons of difficulty or defeat rather than just neglect
to hit a dead end
vsto drop by the wayside
8 4.6

Reach a point where you cannot continue

describes stopping participation due to difficulty or defeat rather than just being stuck
to go by the wayside
vsto drop by the wayside
  • Informal
5 6.9

To stop being used or followed

means stopping participation or progress because of difficulty or giving up
to chuck up the sponge
vsto drop by the wayside
  • UK
9.9

To stop trying because it seems pointless

covers stopping participation from difficulty even when not clearly futile

Antonyms

846 2.0

To reach a goal after trying hard

62 3.7

To keep doing something or keep holding a belief despite difficulty

22 5.1

Keep trying to do something even when it is hard

How Persistent

to persevere
22 5.1
to keep going
357 1.6
to struggle
851 2.8
to drop by the wayside
  • Informal
1 7.5

Surface Forms

drop by the wayside infinitive
dropped by the wayside past participle
dropping by the wayside present participle
drops by the wayside third person singular

Morphology

drop + by + the + wayside

The literal image of 'drop' plus 'wayside' (falling to the side of the road) readily suggests being left behind or removed from a group or process, so a learner who knows the words could infer a related sense. However, the sense 'stop participating or making progress' is a metaphorical extension expressed in a fixed prepositional phrase ('by the wayside') that may be unfamiliar or non-literal to a B1 learner, making the relation only partially predictable.

Etymology

Drop by the wayside comes from people travelling on a road. If someone dropped to the wayside, the side of the road, because they were tired or hurt, they stopped going with the others, so the phrase now means 'to give up' or 'stop taking part'.