to drop by the wayside
- phrasal verb
- Informal
- If you give up during hard times, you will likely drop by the wayside in your journey.
Examples
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And that is exactly what the PG&E lawyers want—they keep making their fees, dragging out the case, waiting for people to drop by the wayside.
Fiction book (2000) -
Many students tend to drop by the wayside when they struggle with a difficult subject.
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... I'm not going to let those who've been hurt drop by the wayside.
Blog text (34) -
He dropped by the wayside, and soft snowflakes fell on his face.
Fiction book (1993) -
One of every three people had dropped by the wayside, and those who survived were so low-spirited that they prayed for death.
Fiction book (1995) -
Larry: We also visit campaign headquarters to get material and get a sampling of each of the candidates in Iowa and New Hampshire before they drop by the wayside.
Blog text (31) -
She watched her teammates drop by the wayside as challenges grew tougher during the competition.
Synonyms
To stop trying to do something or accept defeat
To stop trying when something is too hard
To leave a course, competition or group before finishing
To stop doing something because you cannot continue or feel you have done enough
Stop trying because you cannot win
To stop trying because you know you cannot succeed
Stop taking part or trying because of problems
Reach a point where you cannot continue
To stop being used or followed
To stop trying because it seems pointless
Antonyms
How Persistent
Surface Forms
Morphology
The literal image of 'drop' plus 'wayside' (falling to the side of the road) readily suggests being left behind or removed from a group or process, so a learner who knows the words could infer a related sense. However, the sense 'stop participating or making progress' is a metaphorical extension expressed in a fixed prepositional phrase ('by the wayside') that may be unfamiliar or non-literal to a B1 learner, making the relation only partially predictable.
Etymology
Drop by the wayside comes from people travelling on a road. If someone dropped to the wayside, the side of the road, because they were tired or hurt, they stopped going with the others, so the phrase now means 'to give up' or 'stop taking part'.