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to drift away

to drift away

15 4.5
To slowly lose contact and closeness with someone
  • phrasal verb
  • /drɪft əˈweɪ/
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  • As our lives became busier, I noticed that we had begun to drift away from each other.

The big reason that people drift away from their families is 'cause they're just just lazy.

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Examples

  • I can see the two of them... drifting away from me... and I just stand watching.

  • How can I deal with friends that are drifting away from me?

  • But it seems the guys just drift away in their little social world, as it were, much, much earlier than than the women do.

  • Is it that easy for you to just drift away?

  • Some old friends may have drifted away, and new friends may be more understanding.

    Academic text (1997)
  • The others, they got bored and drifted away.

  • At the same time, more and more people are drifting away from organized religion.

    Academic text (2011)
  • The crowd starts to drift away, leaving Elliot behind in his usual place at the usual time.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • And oftentimes people one by one by one start drifting away and even family unfortunately starts to drift away.

  • Eva and I stand in the doorway to Aunt Flo's kitchen, and the others drift away from us.

    Fiction book (2001)

Synonyms

to withdraw
vsto drift away
466 2.8

To stop taking part in a place or activity

is a gradual loss of contact in relationships rather than an active exit
to pull away
vsto drift away
86 3.5

To move away from people or a place to create space

is a slower, passive reduction of closeness happening over time
to fade away
vsto drift away
69 3.0

To become weaker and then disappear over time

is specifically about losing social closeness over time, not just visibility
to drift apart
vsto drift away
17 3.7

To become less close to each other over time

is the same gradual loss of closeness, often in friendships or relationships
to dissociate
vsto drift away
3 6.7

To stop being involved with a person, group, or idea

is gradual loss of closeness, often unintentional rather than deliberate separation
to ebb away
vsto drift away
1 5.6

To move back slowly, like water leaving a shore

is the social process of losing contact, not a physical receding

Antonyms

Continue to talk or write to someone after you move away

How Close

closeness
26 2.8
to drift away
15 4.5

Surface Forms

drift away infinitive
drifted away past participle
drifting away present participle
drifts away third person singular

Morphology

drift + away

The sense 'to gradually lose contact or closeness' follows directly from combining 'drift' (to move slowly) with 'away' (to move apart or disappear); the meaning is a straightforward extension of physical separation to relational separation. This motion + away composition is common cross-linguistically and would be readily inferable by a B1 learner who knows both constituent words.

Etymology

The expression drift away may come from the image of two small boats tied together on calm water. If the rope becomes loose they slowly drift away from each other, so the phrase now means 'to slowly lose contact or closeness' with someone.