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to drift apart

to drift apart

17 3.7
To become less close to each other over time
  • phrasal verb
  • /drɪft əˈpɑrt/
translation icon : distanciarse (de)
  • Over the years, my childhood friends and I gradually drifted apart as we pursued our own lives.
  • they gradually drifted apart
  • began to drift apart
  • they just drifted apart

People drift apart when it comes to those matters.

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Examples

  • After high school, some of us drifted apart and lost touch with one another.

  • Do you ever get the feeling that we're drifting apart?

  • People drift apart when it comes to those matters.

  • And as time goes on, our experiences would drift apart and we would no longer be the same person.

  • I know, but people can love and people can still drift apart.

  • After my mom died... my dad and I drifted apart.

  • Danny and Robert went to different high schools and drifted apart, though they remained friends.

    Blog text (21)
  • Margo and I sort of... drifted apart.

  • Even so, as the incarceration stretched into years, we drifted apart.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • We went off to two different small-town colleges and drifted apart, but kept in constant touch by phone and email.

    Fiction book (1998)

Synonyms

to separate
vsto drift apart
481 2.9

To move apart or stop being together

implies a slow loss of closeness rather than a clear break
to pull away
vsto drift apart
86 3.5

To move away from people or a place to create space

is about becoming less close slowly and over a long time
to drift away
vsto drift apart
15 4.5

To slowly lose contact and closeness with someone

is broader, applies to people in general not only close relationships
to dissociate
vsto drift apart
3 6.7

To stop being involved with a person, group, or idea

describes a gradual, passive decrease in closeness rather than an active break

Antonyms

Continue to talk or write to someone after you move away

Things coming together at the same point

How Close

to drift apart
17 3.7

Surface Forms

drift apart infinitive
drifted apart past participle
drifting apart present participle
drifts apart third person singular

Morphology

drift + apart

The meaning 'to gradually become less close' is directly derivable from combining 'drift' (to move slowly) with 'apart' (separated); the metaphor of slow physical separation maps transparently onto social distance. This verb+particle composition is common in English and in many languages, so a B1 learner who knows the constituents would likely infer the MWE's meaning.

Etymology

Drift apart comes from the picture of two small boats that slowly drift apart on calm water when nobody steers them. Little by little the boats move away from each other, so drift apart now means 'to become less close' or 'lose contact' over time.