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deferential

deferential

10 6.6
Being respectful and polite to someone because they are older or have more experience
  • adjective
  • /ˌdɛfərˈɛnʃəl/
  • Formal
: respetuoso
  • When issues are complex and systemic interests are at stake, appellate review should be less deferential.
  • deferential manner
  • deferential tone
  • deferential attitude

It just seems logical is that the larger the family, the more you had to learn to be deferential and accommodating to people in your space.

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Examples

  • There was something childlike about her, trustful and deferential, like a child.

    Academic text (2005)
  • Power here is expressed in deferential behavior to the pump owner.

    Academic text (1995)
  • This is very deferential to the state courts.

  • But I could see that she had painted a deferential look on her face.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • The reason it's taking long, I think, is because every agency in government is generally deferential to the FDA.

  • Your predecessor was less deferential.

  • His opinion seems especially deferential when one considers how casual the legislative process was.

    Academic text (1995)
  • But I've never seen such deferential body language and affect from Trump, and we have been watching him now for a decade.

  • "OK," Rayford said, "but my guess is they'll be deferential to me."

    Fiction book (1998)
  • The student was deferential toward her professor, always listening carefully to his advice.

Synonyms

respectful
vsdeferential
146 1.1

Being polite and showing admiration for someone

emphasizes polite submission because of position, age, or experience
submissive
vsdeferential
39 5.1

Willing to obey others and not argue

expresses respect yet does not imply complete unresisting obedience
courteous
vsdeferential
39 3.7

Polite and respectful when you speak or behave

centres on yielding to authority or experience rather than general politeness
polite
vsdeferential
23 1.0

Having elegant manners and good taste in art or dress

adds a sense of submission to authority not implied by mere refinement
reverent
vsdeferential
10 6.1

Showing deep respect, often during religious or formal events

is respect shown because of position or experience rather than sacred awe
worshipful
vsdeferential
3 7.1

Showing deep respect and love, often for a person or God

is respectful but lacks the strong adoration or devotional feeling
reverential
vsdeferential
3 7.6

Showing deep respect and awe

expresses reverence while the key stresses polite submission to status
mannerly
vsdeferential
2 4.1

Polite and behaving well around other people

is polite yet specifically involves yielding to someone's rank or age
deferent
vsdeferential
  • Formal
1 7.7

Respectful and willing to accept other people's opinions

has identical meaning but is a variant form of the same adjective
mannerable
vsdeferential
  • Archaic
1 7.3

Being polite and treating people with respect

includes polite behavior but adds deference because of someone's position
regardful
vsdeferential
1 7.7

Respectful and careful about other people's feelings

focuses more on submission to rank or age rather than consideration
obeisant
vsdeferential
  • Literature
1 9.1

Very respectful and ready to obey someone in a formal way

is respectful but less formally obedient and more about polite submission

Antonyms

246 4.5

Behaving as if you are more important or better than other people

115 3.0

Not polite to someone, for example interrupting them

How Respectful

obsequious
  • Formal
8 9.3
submissive
39 5.1
deferential
  • Formal
10 6.6
respectful
146 1.1
polite
336 1.0

Surface Forms

deferential positive
deferentially positive

Morphology

deferential = deference (opaque) = defer + ential

The adjective is historically related to deference, but the visible form also suggests the unrelated modern verb defer 'delay', so the meaning is not directly recoverable for learners.

Etymology

Deferential comes from defer, which once meant to 'give' or 'hand over' to someone of higher rank. Think of the fer part as in transfer ('to carry'), so being deferential is like 'giving' your respect to another person, which is why it means showing polite respect.