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defensiveness

defensiveness

10 6.4
Feeling hurt by criticism and trying to protect yourself
  • noun
  • /dɪˈfɛnsɪvnəs/
translation icon : actitud defensiva
  • Anytime you start telling somebody you need to do this, you need to do that, you need to do this, defensiveness goes up really high.
  • attributions of defensiveness
  • recipient defensiveness
  • self-ratings of defensiveness

I want to defend, but with narcissists, defensiveness always makes things worse.

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Examples

  • Teacher resistance was minimal, yet underlying defensiveness was evident during initial meetings with the participants.

    Academic text (2012)
  • I see so much resentment and defensiveness.

  • And yet we cannot let that defensiveness stop us.

  • And the defensiveness, is that a recent development?

  • And I think defensiveness is the great enemy of communication growth in friendship and in relationships.

  • There is often a defensiveness amongst law enforcement.

  • However, it may also lead to defensiveness about identities thought to be under threat.

    Academic text (2003)
  • One of the dominant reactions is defensiveness, and people try to cover up rather than recover.

  • A note of defensiveness had crept into her voice; she saw them noticing it.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Many people exhibit a sense of defensiveness when facing criticism, making it hard to have constructive conversations.

Synonyms

bunker mentality
vsdefensiveness
2 7.9

A defensive, isolated attitude people develop after being criticized many times

is a strong sensitivity that causes protective reactions without isolation
oversensitivity
vsdefensiveness
1 5.8

A tendency to react too strongly to criticism or small problems

triggers self protective responses rather than only emotional overreaction
guardedness
vsdefensiveness
1 6.9

A way of being careful and reserved about sharing personal thoughts or feelings

reacts with protective measures to perceived criticism rather than mere privacy
defensive attitude
vsdefensiveness
5.2

Trying to protect yourself from criticism by denying or making excuses

is more excessive sensitivity leading to protective reactions

Antonyms

101 2.9

Willingness to be friendly to people and ideas that are different

A willingness to accept new ideas or feedback

How Defensive

defensiveness
10 6.4
guardedness
1 6.9
reserve
9 5.2
calmness
9 2.7

Surface Forms

defensiveness singular

Morphology

defensiveness = defensive (transparent) = defend + ive + ness

Formed by adding the noun-forming suffix '-ness' to the adjective 'defensive'; the meaning is directly the quality of being defensive.

Etymology

Defensiveness comes from the verb defend, which means 'protect'. Think of lifting a shield when someone criticizes you. So, defensiveness is the habit of protecting yourself from criticism, often by reacting too quickly.