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to cut the apron strings

to cut the apron strings

1 7.7
To become independent from your parents and live on your own
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : cortar los lazos
  • He knew it was time to cut the apron strings and make his own choices without relying on his family.

Examples

  • I'm cutting the apron strings.

  • After living with her parents for years, she finally decided to cut the apron strings and move into her own place.

  • Many young adults feel it's important to cut the apron strings to truly experience independence.

Synonyms

to leave home
vsto cut the apron strings
102 1.4

To move out of your parents' house to live by yourself

covers broader change including gaining independence without moving out
to be one's own man
vsto cut the apron strings
7 6.5

To make your own decisions without other people telling you what to do

is about ending reliance on parents to decide and live separately
to cut the cord
vsto cut the apron strings
  • Informal
5 6.6

To stop depending on someone or something and become independent

emphasizes ending reliance specifically on parents for independence
to paddle one's own canoe
vsto cut the apron strings
  • Archaic
2 7.5

To be independent and take care of yourself without help

focuses on ending parental dependence for personal decisions and living
to untether
vsto cut the apron strings
1 6.2

To free someone or something from limits so they can act more freely

is specific to becoming independent from parents for life choices
to cut the umbilical cord
vsto cut the apron strings
  • Informal
1 6.8

To become independent from parents and make your own decisions

focuses on stopping parental reliance for decisions and living apart
to spread your wings
vsto cut the apron strings
  • Informal
1 4.2

To start living on your own and try new things

focuses more on starting new experiences than fully ending parental reliance

Antonyms

352 1.0

To rely on a person or thing for help

How Independent

to move out
164 1.9
to cut the apron strings
  • Informal
1 7.7
to depend on
309 1.0

Surface Forms

Morphology

cut + the + apron + strings

The phrase evokes a concrete image—cutting cords attached to an apron—so a learner who knows 'cut', 'apron', and 'strings' can plausibly infer a sense of severing an attachment and gaining independence. However, the specific family/parental dependency sense is a conventionalized metaphor (apron-strings = parental tie) that is culturally specific and not fully predictable from the parts, so many B1 learners would not reliably derive the exact meaning without exposure.

Etymology

The idiom cut the apron strings comes from the picture of a child tied to a mother's apron by strings, and cutting those strings lets the child go. So it means 'to become independent' and stop relying on 'parents'.