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to cry uncle

to cry uncle

1 8.8
To admit you give up when someone pressures you
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : rendirse
  • The children begged for a break from the game until one finally cried uncle and sat down.

And they do that until you cry uncle, right?

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Examples

  • Sometimes people just don't know when to cry "uncle."

    Blog text (24)
  • A few months after I left Nicaragua, they cried uncle and voted the Sandinistas out of office.

    Academic text (2007)
  • Because you can imagine Putin and the net and, and the Russian state not wanting to appear to, to cry uncle to this pressure.

  • I was absolutely shocked at the threshold that I had to cry uncle.

  • You are entitled to no more than the rhetorical equivalent of an ice pick in the kidneys until you either cry "Uncle" or withdraw.

    Blog text (18)
  • The formula is thus attainable in a way that simply pressuring the Iranians into crying "uncle" is not.

    Academic text (2013)
  • There is a difference between someone like Carreon starting a fight and then crying uncle when he's getting pummeled and a group of people who are starting out from a position of power.

    Blog text (28)
  • In public and congressional discussion, the sweeping and unrelenting nature of sanctions against Iran has come to be treated as an end in itself, with almost no attention to exactly how the sanctions relate to Iranian concessions beyond a simple notion that the Iranians ought to give up and cry "uncle."

    Academic text (2013)
  • Daniel Ortega would not surrender to the contras or "cry uncle" to the United States—as Reagan had demanded—but he was a man in search of an exit.

    Academic text (1991)
  • After struggling for hours to fix the car, I finally cried uncle and called for help.

Synonyms

to concede
vsto cry uncle
49 4.9

To accept that you have lost a contest or election

is more about surrender under pressure or after direct struggle
to throw in
vsto cry uncle
  • Informal
29 4.9

Stop trying because you cannot win

is the same idea but often stresses yielding after struggle or pressure
to throw in the towel
vsto cry uncle
  • Informal
27 4.8

To stop trying because you know you cannot succeed

covers admitting defeat especially when pressured or after a struggle
to capitulate
vsto cry uncle
23 8.4

To stop fighting back and accept defeat or demands

is more informal and focuses on personal admission under pressure
to swallow pride
vsto cry uncle
  • Informal
9 5.7

To accept being wrong to make peace or get help

involves admitting defeat mainly because of pressure or after struggle
to wave the white flag
vsto cry uncle
  • Informal
4 4.0

To stop trying and accept that you lost

is similar but focuses more on personal admission under pressure
to say uncle
vsto cry uncle
  • Informal
2 8.9

To give up because of pressure or pain

is the same phrase but used when surrender follows a tough struggle
to chuck up the sponge
vsto cry uncle
  • UK
9.9

To stop trying because it seems pointless

is about admitting defeat under pressure rather than only futility
to fold like a cheap suit
vsto cry uncle
  • Informal
9.6

To give in easily when under pressure

implies admitting defeat but usually after a real struggle or pressure

Antonyms

188 3.3

Resist an attack or criticism by responding

22 5.1

Keep trying to do something even when it is hard

How Resistant

to stand firm
22 3.7
to resist
311 2.2
to back down
107 3.7
to cry uncle
  • Informal
1 8.8
to give up
1.2

Surface Forms

cry uncle infinitive
cried uncle past participle
crying uncle present participle
cries uncle third person singular

Morphology

cry + uncle

The meaning 'to admit defeat or surrender' is not derivable from the literal constituents: 'cry' (to shout) plus 'uncle' (a family relation) gives no transparent cue to surrender. This is an idiomatic, culturally rooted phrase whose sense is unpredictable without prior exposure, so a B1 learner who knows the words would likely not infer the meaning.

Etymology

The idiom cry uncle may come from children's rough games, where a child held by another would cry uncle to make the other stop. That's why today it means 'to admit defeat' or 'to give up'.