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by the short hair

by the short hair

9.9
To keep someone tightly controlled so they have little choice
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : tener a alguien en un puño
  • The evidence held the suspect by the short hair, making a confession unavoidable.

Examples

  • With the final piece of information, they finally had the rival company by the short hair.

  • She really has her boss by the short hair after discovering that mistake.

  • The manager had the team by the short hair during the project.

  • Don't let anyone take you by the short hair!

  • The evidence held the suspect by the short hair, making a confession unavoidable.

  • With the final piece of information, they finally had the rival company by the short hair.

  • She really has her boss by the short hair after discovering that mistake.

Synonyms

to hold the cards
vsby the short hair
  • Informal
8 6.1

To have control or an advantage in a situation

refers to having power that forces little or no choice rather than just advantage
on a short leash
vsby the short hair
  • Informal
7 7.7

Kept under strict control with little freedom

describes control as forcing disadvantage rather than mere supervision
to have someone by the balls
vsby the short hair
  • Offensive
3 9.9

To have complete power over someone by controlling what they need or fear

means firmly controlling someone while using less crude language
left over a barrel
vsby the short hair
  • Informal
8.7

In a situation where you cannot act freely and must accept someone else's decision

puts the other person firmly under control with little choice

Antonyms

1.0

The right to act, speak, or think as you want without being stopped

429 3.3

Being free from unfair rules or control by government

Surface Forms

Morphology

by + the + short + hair

The idiomatic sense 'to have someone firmly under control' is not transparently built from 'by' (near), 'short' (small) and 'hair' (a strand or hairstyle); 'short hair' normally denotes a hairstyle and does not signal dominance or control. A B1 learner who knows the constituents would be unlikely to derive this specific metaphorical meaning without prior exposure, so the expression functions as an unpredictable idiom.

Etymology

By the short hair comes from the picture of someone being grabbed by the short hair on their head so they cannot move. So, to hold someone by the short hair means 'to have them under your control' or to give them little or no choice.