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to bend to someone's will

to bend to someone's will

7.1
To do what someone else wants even if you do not want to
  • idiom
translation icon : someterse a la voluntad de alguien
  • You can get the world to bend to your will.

Examples

  • They... people who refused to bend to the will of God, and claim it privilege.

  • In the face of overwhelming evidence, he was forced to bend to her will regarding the project's direction.

  • I am not about to bend to the will of some pubescent queen.

  • Will we bend to the will of the foreigner?"

  • A thousand broken sticks and swords won't teach as much as the one that bends to your will.

  • I have found, when dealing with foreigners, if one speaks loudly and slowly, they'll bend to your will.

  • After months of negotiation, the manager decided to bend to the company's will to secure a deal.

  • Despite his initial resistance, he eventually chose to bend to their will to maintain peace in the office.

Synonyms

to obey
vsto bend to someone's will
411 1.0

Do what someone in charge tells you or follow a rule

is about accepting another's wishes or influence, not just following commands
to give in
vsto bend to someone's will
220 3.0

To stop resisting and agree to what others want

is about yielding to another's wishes or influence rather than only ceasing resistance
to submit
vsto bend to someone's will
187 4.1

To accept another person's control, often against your wishes

is more about yielding to another's personal wishes or influence
to bow
vsto bend to someone's will
127 6.3

To give in to another person's wishes or demands

is about accepting another's wishes or influence rather than just formal respect
to cave
vsto bend to someone's will
  • Informal
71 6.7

To give in to pressure or demands

is a more general phrase for yielding to another's wishes or authority
to succumb to
vsto bend to someone's will
69 5.8

Fail to resist a strong feeling or pressure and give in

is about yielding to a person's wishes or influence rather than to harmful forces
to succumb
vsto bend to someone's will
43 7.0

To accept something you tried to refuse

focuses on yielding to someone's wishes or influence rather than to temptation alone
to defer
vsto bend to someone's will
  • Formal
36 6.2

To accept another person's opinion or decision out of respect

is about giving in to personal influence or pressure rather than respectful choice
to relent
vsto bend to someone's will
31 5.8

To stop resisting and allow something to happen, like a person giving in or a storm easing

is about yielding to another's wishes or authority rather than merely softening stance
to bow down
vsto bend to someone's will
30 3.7

Lower your head or body to show respect, often as a sign that you obey someone

is about agreeing to someone's wishes or influence rather than just a gesture
to cave in
vsto bend to someone's will
  • Informal
21 4.8

Give in to pressure or strong requests after resisting

is more about accepting someone's wishes or influence, not only pressure
to acquiesce
vsto bend to someone's will
  • Formal
20 8.4

To accept something you do not want without complaining

is more about giving up to someone's active influence rather than quiet acceptance
to kowtow
vsto bend to someone's will
12 9.2

To behave very obediently to please a person in power

is about yielding to another's wishes or influence without extreme servility
to kowtow to
vsto bend to someone's will
9 8.9

To show too much respect and obedience to someone in power

is used for normal yielding to wishes or influence rather than servile behaviour
to cave to
vsto bend to someone's will
  • Informal
5 7.6

To give in to pressure or demands from others

is focused on accepting someone's wishes or influence rather than just demands
to knuckle under
vsto bend to someone's will
  • Informal
4 8.4

To give in to pressure or someone in charge even if you do not want to

is about yielding to another's wishes or influence rather than harsh authority
to buckle under
vsto bend to someone's will
2 6.7

To give in to pressure even though you do not want to

is about yielding to personal wishes or influence rather than only to force
to buckle to
vsto bend to someone's will
2 8.4

To give in to pressure or criticism

is about accepting someone's wishes or influence rather than responding to criticism
to bend the knee
vsto bend to someone's will
1 8.4

To show loyalty and obey a powerful person

is broader, meaning to accept another's wishes or influence, not only symbolically

Antonyms

311 2.2

Act against authority, rules or change

22 3.7

Keep your decision or opinion when others try to make you change

How Submissive

to kowtow
12 9.2
to capitulate
23 8.4
to bend to someone's will
7.1
to give in
220 3.0
to acquiesce
  • Formal
20 8.4
to comply
332 3.8

Surface Forms

bending to someone's will present participle
bends to someone's will third person singular
bent to someone's will past participle

Morphology

bend + to + someone's + will

The literal meanings of 'bend' (to curve) and 'will' (one's determination) combine metaphorically so a learner can plausibly infer 'yield or give in' from 'bend to someone's will'; the physical-to-social metaphor is common and often paralleled in other languages. However, the use is conventionalized and the exact nuance ('submit to someone's wishes/authority') is not fully predictable from the parts alone, so it is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Bend to someone's will may come from the image of a thin branch that bends when someone pushes it, so the branch moves to the person's will, meaning their desire. That's why the phrase means 'to give in to someone's wishes'.