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aloof

aloof

34 6.3
Not friendly and distant, not joining in with other people
  • adjective
  • /əˈluːf/
translation icon : distante
  • Many perceived the new student as aloof because she rarely smiled or interacted with her classmates.
  • remain aloof
  • stand aloof
  • keep aloof

No, he was a very aloof person in private.

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Examples

  • No, he's a sophisticated but aloof gentleman.

  • He seemed normal, aloof, but normal.

  • No, he was a very aloof person in private.

  • I thought I was being rather aloof.

  • He was just a very aloof type individual, smart, but just different.

  • There was a period of time when people would say that I was aloof and and arrogant.

  • Friendly but aloof and dignified.

  • 21 agency officials would organize and participate in the negotiations rather than remain aloof from the process.

    Academic text (2006)
  • Libby was separate; not aloof exactly, but sort of detached, marking time.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Marissa, on the other hand, was restrained and aloof, seemingly unwilling for others to know what she was thinking.

    Fiction book (1999)

Synonyms

cold
vsaloof
883 4.4

Unfriendly and distant in feeling or action

is broader, adding a sense of social distance and noninvolvement beyond coldness
distant
vsaloof
61 4.9

Not friendly or warm, behaving in a quiet, cold way

is more about being uninvolved in behaviour rather than mere appearance
detached
vsaloof
27 5.5

A person who is not affected by personal feelings and shows little emotion

includes emotional coldness but also general social distance and lack of engagement
icy
vsaloof
22 3.3

Cold and unfriendly in tone or manner

is similar but focuses more on being emotionally uninvolved overall
chilly
vsaloof
16 3.5

Not friendly or warm toward other people

is broader, highlighting general social distance beyond mere cold feeling
standoffish
vsaloof
9 7.1

Not friendly and keeping a distance from others

is like this but emphasizes emotional uninvolvement as well as distance
unapproachable
vsaloof
3 6.6

Not friendly and hard to talk to so people avoid them

is similar but stresses general lack of involvement rather than blocking contact
unsociable
vsaloof
2 5.3

A person who does not enjoy being with other people

is less about preference and more about a distant, uninvolved manner
offish
vsaloof
1 8.2

Not friendly and avoids talking to other people

is broader, describing overall uninvolved attitude not only deliberate avoidance
reserved
vsaloof
3.7

Not willing to show feelings or talk much

is more about being detached and distant rather than simply quiet restraint
unexpansive
vsaloof
8.6

Not talking much and not showing strong feelings

is about social distance and lack of involvement rather than mere restraint
withdrawn
vsaloof
4.8

Someone who is quiet and prefers to be alone instead of being with others

is similar but focuses on general uninvolvement rather than a choice to be alone

Antonyms

773 1.0

Kind and helpful toward other people

355 3.5

Feeling a strong emotional connection to someone or something

How Distant

standoffish
9 7.1
aloof
34 6.3
reserved
3.7

Surface Forms

aloof positive
aloofer comparative
aloofest superlative

Etymology

Aloof comes from an old sailing phrase made of a- and loof, which meant 'to the wind' or 'away from the shore', so a ship would stay at a distance. That's why aloof now means 'not friendly' or 'distant'.