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affability

affability

1 5.3
A friendly, gentle way that makes people feel comfortable
  • noun
  • /ˌæf.əˈbɪl.ɪ.ti/
translation icon : afabilidad
  • Her quietness and her strong academic record suggested to them goodness and affability.

Examples

  • Among the qualities they share are their affability and constant smiles.

    Academic text (1992)
  • I'm afraid our host is losing his charm and affability.

  • I have been treated with such affability, such condescension, as I would never have dared to hope for.

  • A factor of enormous and usually decisive weight in job searches is the candidate's affability—or, to use a more popular term, "collegiality."

    Academic text (2001)
  • Her natural affability made everyone feel comfortable during the meeting.

  • He greeted the guests with his usual affability, making them feel right at home.

  • Despite the tense situation, her affability helped to ease the atmosphere.

Synonyms

friendliness
vsaffability
16 1.0

A kind and pleasant way of treating other people

is narrower, stressing ease of talk rather than broad social warmth
likability
vsaffability
  • US
13 3.5

How pleasant and friendly someone or something seems to other people

is more specific about being easy to talk to than broad being liked
congeniality
vsaffability
11 6.5

Being pleasant and friendly so people enjoy your company

leans more toward being talkable and welcoming rather than just agreeable
niceness
vsaffability
11 1.3

A kind and polite way of treating other people

is more focused on ease of talking and conversational warmth
pleasantness
vsaffability
2 3.4

A feeling that something is nice and enjoyable

specifies that pleasing quality in terms of friendly talkability
sociability
vsaffability
2 3.6

Enjoying being with other people and making friends

focuses on conversational ease not the desire for social gatherings
bonhomie
vsaffability
2 9.3

A friendly, cheerful manner that makes people feel relaxed

matches the friendly tone but the key is more neutral and general
amiability
vsaffability
1 4.1

A friendly, pleasant way of behaving that makes people feel comfortable

focuses on the same welcoming manner rather than any extra trait
charming personality
vsaffability
1 2.5

A friendly, attractive way of behaving that makes people like you

is similar but stresses ordinary friendly talk rather than charm
approachability
vsaffability
1 4.1

The quality of being friendly and easy to talk to

covers that ease but also general pleasant conversation ability
geniality
vsaffability
1 5.5

A friendly, cheerful way that makes people feel welcome

is similar but not necessarily as cheerful in tone
warm personality
vsaffability
1 2.7

A friendly, kind way of behaving that makes people feel comfortable

relates to being pleasant to talk to but is broader in warmth
agreeableness
vsaffability
1 5.3

Being friendly, kind, and easy to get along with

is more about being approachable and pleasant in conversation
agreeability
vsaffability
1 5.0

A pleasant, friendly quality of someone who often says yes to others

is about friendly talkability rather than compliance or agreement
kindliness
vsaffability
1 3.2

Being friendly, generous, and caring to other people

focuses more narrowly on easy, pleasant conversational manner
affableness
vsaffability
6.5

Being friendly and easy to talk to

is the more common or standard spelling form of the same idea
amiableness
vsaffability
6.7

A friendly, pleasant way of acting that makes others feel comfortable

emphasizes easy conversation more than simply being pleasant
amicableness
vsaffability
7.7

A friendly, pleasant way of acting that avoids quarrels

focuses more on being talkable than on avoiding conflict
amicability
vsaffability
6.2

A friendly, pleasant way of behaving that avoids conflict

centres on being easy to talk to without the conflict focus
personableness
vsaffability
7.2

Being friendly and pleasant so people enjoy being with you

is similar but puts more weight on easy conversation access
good-naturedness
vsaffability
3.2

A kind, friendly attitude that wants to help others

is nearer when the main quality is ease of talking rather than help
warmheartedness
vsaffability
4.4

A kind and friendly feeling toward other people

is friendlier for conversation but less focused on deep caring
sociableness
vsaffability
5.5

A liking for being with other people

is about being easy to talk to rather than seeking company
outgoingness
vsaffability
3.7

Being friendly and willing to talk to new people

is similar but stresses warmth and ease of one to one talk
communicativeness
vsaffability
5.5

A willingness and ability to talk and share ideas with other people

is about being pleasant and welcoming specifically for conversation
talkability
vsaffability
6.7

Easy to talk to and able to start a friendly conversation

is broader, covering friendliness beyond just talking tendency

Antonyms

A cold, not kind way of behaving toward other people

A quality of being unpleasant and hard to get along with that makes people avoid you

How Friendly

geniality
1 5.5
affability
1 5.3
amiability
1 4.1

Surface Forms

affability singular
affabilities plural

Morphology

affability = affable (transparent) = affable + ity

Formed by a regular nominalization (-ity) from the adjective 'affable', so the meaning 'the quality of being affable' is directly derived.

Etymology

Affability comes from Latin parts ad- 'to' and fari 'speak', so it means 'easy to speak to' and today describes someone who is friendly and pleasant to talk with.