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bonhomie

bonhomie

2 9.3
A friendly, cheerful manner that makes people feel relaxed
  • noun
  • /ˌbɒnəˈmi/
translation icon : bonhomía
  • Everyone at the party enjoyed the warm bonhomie of their host, who made everyone feel welcome.

Examples

  • Her natural bonhomie made it easy for her to make friends wherever she went.

  • Even a stranger could hear the desperation behind the near-hysterical bonhomie.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • However informal it might appear, you can be sure there was to be very little bonhomie.

  • I'm beginning to feel quite ill with all this bonhomie.

  • India's relationship with Afghanistan has enjoyed relatively greater bonhomie.

    Academic text (2018)
  • Warner Purcell was first to arrive full of bonhomie and good humor.

  • Budget negotiations reopened in Washington with bipartisan bonhomie as President Obama met with congressional leaders.

    Blog text (16)
  • An expression of alert calculation lurked at the back of his bright brown eyes, behind the smooth bonhomie that oiled his transactions.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • I was fascinated by the cheery bonhomie of that block -- humans of all races, muppets, living together in urban harmony.

    Blog text (8)
  • In the novel, the protagonist, Fritz Kobus, 36, a solid citizen of Hunebourg with a well-deserved reputation for bonhomie, has a comfortable income but is very set in his ways.

    Academic text (2000)

Synonyms

friendliness
vsbonhomie
16 1.0

A kind and pleasant way of treating other people

leans more toward bright cheerfulness and an open, approachable manner
congeniality
vsbonhomie
11 6.5

Being pleasant and friendly so people enjoy your company

is livelier and more outgoing, stressing cheerfulness and approachability
amiability
vsbonhomie
1 4.1

A friendly, pleasant way of behaving that makes people feel comfortable

adds a clear sense of cheerful warmth to that approachable manner
affability
vsbonhomie
1 5.3

A friendly, gentle way that makes people feel comfortable

adds an upbeat, cheerful quality to that easy conversational tone
geniality
vsbonhomie
1 5.5

A friendly, cheerful way that makes people feel welcome

is more about bright cheerfulness plus being easy to approach
hospitableness
vsbonhomie
1 6.0

Being friendly and welcoming to guests and strangers

focuses more on cheerful friendliness in general social situations
good-humoredness
vsbonhomie
  • US
5.6

A cheerful, friendly way of behaving that is patient and willing to help others

is focused on sunny friendliness combined with easy approachability
amiableness
vsbonhomie
6.7

A friendly, pleasant way of acting that makes others feel comfortable

emphasizes lively cheerfulness in addition to being pleasant and approachable
affableness
vsbonhomie
6.5

Being friendly and easy to talk to

is more specifically warm and cheerful as well as approachable

Antonyms

147 4.7

Unfriendly or angry actions and feelings toward someone

4 7.2

A feeling of being distant from other people and not friendly

How Friendly

affection
317 1.4
warmth
103 1.0
bonhomie
2 9.3
friendliness
16 1.0
politeness
26 1.3
coldness
7 3.2
hostility
147 4.7

Surface Forms

bonhomie singular
bonhomies plural

Etymology

Bonhomie comes from the French word bonhomme, which literally means 'good man', with bon 'good' and homme 'man'. So, imagine a warm, friendly person and you will remember that bonhomie means cheerful friendliness.