Skip to main content
soother

soother

4.2
A person who calms others during arguments or distress
  • noun
  • /ˈsuːðər/
translation icon : calmante
  • Calling for Mother, the soother, the healer

I am very much an internal soother.

Examples

  • A professional soother, Randall thought.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • India's a hard country to escape, but I'd found that the spice-infused tea was a great nerve soother, such a seemingly civilized thing—taking tea in the afternoon.

    Blog text (26)
  • As a natural soother, she always knows how to calm her friends during stressful moments.

  • During the argument, he acted as a soother, helping both sides to find common ground.

  • Teachers often serve as soothers for students who are feeling anxious before a big test.

Synonyms

reliever
vssoother
9 3.7

Something that makes pain or worry less

focuses specifically on calming or pacifying others in conflict or distress
comforter
vssoother
5 3.4

A person who helps someone feel less sad or worried

emphasizes active calming and pacifying during arguments or distress
consoler
vssoother
1 4.0

A person who makes someone feel less sad

covers calming in conflicts as well as soothing personal distress
pacifier
vssoother
1 7.0

A person who calms people and helps stop conflict

applies more broadly to calming people in arguments or distress
mollifier
vssoother
8.2

A person who calms others in tense situations

is the general role of calming others during arguments or distress

Antonyms

53 4.9

A person, group, or country that starts a fight

12 6.8

A person who starts trouble or urges others to act

How Calming

peacemaker
23 3.7
mediator
45 4.0
soother
4.2
counselor
  • US
311 3.2
comforter
5 3.4

Surface Forms

soother singular
soothers plural

Morphology

soother = soothe (transparent) = soothe + er

Agent noun formed from the verb 'soothe' by adding '-er'; a person who calms others is directly derivable.

Etymology

Soother comes from the verb soothe, which means 'to calm', plus the ending -er meaning 'one who'. So a soother is a person who helps calm others during arguments or when they are upset.