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comforter

comforter

5 3.4
A person who helps someone feel less sad or worried
  • noun
  • /ˈkʌmfərtər/
translation icon : consolador
  • The community rallied around him, each member serving as a comforter during his time of grief.

The Thoreau I can hear is the one whose nature is not a simple comforter but also not a simple mirror.

Examples

  • Mr. G. strained to maintain his composure as he became the comforter rather than the comforted.

    Academic text (2005)
  • Now this Paraclete, this comforter, this Holy Spirit would be to teach us and to guide us and to comfort us.

  • You will not be my comforter?

  • As a result, they never know God as their comforter or consoler.

    Blog text (24)
  • Jesus sent the Holy Spirit for believers to be a comforter.

    Blog text (6)
  • And now a comforter had come to ease the crushing load of nobody knowing.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Nothando screamed, reverting to Zulu, her primal comforter in times of crisis.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • During her toughest times, her friend acted as a comforter, providing the emotional support she desperately needed.

  • As a skilled counselor, she became a trusted comforter for those struggling with anxiety and depression.

Synonyms

shoulder to cry on
vscomforter
  • Informal
15 3.2

A person who gives comfort and listens when you feel sad

is used more generally for emotional support, not only nearby presence
sympathizer
vscomforter
1 4.3

A person who feels sorry for someone and shows support

is more active, offering direct help and support rather than only expressing feeling
consoler
vscomforter
1 4.0

A person who makes someone feel less sad

is used more broadly for any upset or trouble rather than only sadness
soother
vscomforter
4.2

A person who calms others during arguments or distress

is about offering ongoing sympathy and support rather than only calming reactions
mollifier
vscomforter
8.2

A person who calms others in tense situations

is broader, focusing on general sympathy and support not only easing tension
condoler
vscomforter
  • Archaic
8.0

A person who shows sympathy to someone who has lost a loved one

is used more generally for any upset or trouble, not only grief or loss
succorer
vscomforter
9.8

A person who helps others in trouble

is mainly emotional, offering sympathy and moral support rather than practical aid

Compounds

A person who says things meant to help but makes someone feel worse

How Comforting

therapist
508 3.7
counselor
  • US
311 3.2
comforter
5 3.4
friend
1.0
supporter
817 1.0
sympathizer
1 4.3

Surface Forms

comforter singular
comforters plural

Morphology

comforter = comfort (transparent) = comfort + er

Clear agent noun formation from the verb 'comfort' + '-er' meaning 'one who comforts'.

Etymology

Comforter for a person who gives support comes from the verb comfort, which once meant 'to make strong' or 'give courage'. That's why a comforter is someone who helps and calms a person in trouble.