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consoler

consoler

1 4.0
A person who makes someone feel less sad
  • noun
  • /kənˈsoʊlər/
translation icon : consolador
  • On the tenth of May, Pentecost—the feast of the Holy Ghost, the true consoler—the gate of Dillenburg Castle was opened for the prisoner, and a horse was saddled for him.
  • chief consoler

Examples

  • So Spencer is front and center, the chief mourner, consoler, and witness to Marlise's shame in the thruway snack bar.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • As a result, they never know God as their comforter or consoler.

    Blog text (24)
  • The consolers sat on the floor with them, sat at the edge of Lily's grief.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • But the idea of the president as consoler-in-chief and master of the bedside manner was unique to FDR until the 1990s.

    Blog text (20)
  • Here is an early and not altogether brutal hint of what awaits Job in the severer discourse of his consolers: the logic of punishment.

    Academic text (1998)
  • After losing her pet, many friends came to be her consoler and offer comfort.

  • The counselor acted as a consoler for the students who were dealing with their grief.

  • As a consoler, he listened attentively to her feelings of sadness and offered kind words.

Synonyms

shoulder to cry on
vsconsoler
  • Informal
15 3.2

A person who gives comfort and listens when you feel sad

is used more generally and does not stress physical availability
comforter
vsconsoler
5 3.4

A person who helps someone feel less sad or worried

is focused on giving emotional comfort when someone feels sad
sympathizer
vsconsoler
1 4.3

A person who feels sorry for someone and shows support

places more emphasis on active emotional comfort than general sympathy
soother
vsconsoler
4.2

A person who calms others during arguments or distress

is more about general comfort for sadness than calming conflicts
condoler
vsconsoler
  • Archaic
8.0

A person who shows sympathy to someone who has lost a loved one

covers comforting sad people for any reason, not only grief
sympathist
vsconsoler
7.3

A person who feels sorry for people in pain and tries to comfort them

is oriented toward providing direct comfort rather than only feeling sympathy
succorer
vsconsoler
9.8

A person who helps others in trouble

focuses on emotional soothing rather than offering practical aid

How Comforting

therapist
508 3.7
counselor
  • US
311 3.2
consoler
1 4.0
friend
1.0
acquaintance
114 3.5

Surface Forms

consoler singular
consolers plural

Morphology

consoler = console (transparent) = console + er

Regularly formed from the verb 'console' plus the agent/instrumentive suffix '-er', meaning 'one or something that provides comfort'.

Etymology

The word consoler comes from the parts con- 'together' and solare 'to soothe', the same root as solace, so a consoler is someone who comes to soothe and comfort a person who is sad.