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to shillyshally

to shillyshally

9.9
Hesitate instead of deciding or acting quickly
  • verb
  • /ˈʃɪliˌʃæli/
  • Informal
translation icon : vacilar
  • Stop shillyshallying and just sign the contract already!

Examples

  • If you keep shillyshallying, you might lose the opportunity.

  • He tends to shillyshally when it comes to making important decisions.

  • All this shillyshallying around, I'd make a better MP myself.

Synonyms

to hesitate
vsto shillyshally
318 2.5

To pause before saying or doing something because you feel unsure

is a broader indecision that delays action or a decision
to stall
vsto shillyshally
166 4.3

To delay doing something on purpose to get more time

is hesitation-driven delay, not a tactical deliberate postponement
to waver
vsto shillyshally
52 5.7

To show doubt when making a decision

focuses on hesitation causing delay in acting or deciding
to procrastinate
vsto shillyshally
26 6.5

To delay doing something you should do because you avoid it

focuses on immediate indecision causing delay rather than habit
to waffle
vsto shillyshally
15 8.3

To delay giving a clear answer or making a choice

is about hesitation that delays action, not just avoiding verbal commitment
to dither
vsto shillyshally
8 7.7

To act nervously and be unable to decide quickly

is steady hesitation that delays action rather than nervous behavior
to dilly-dally
vsto shillyshally
  • Informal
5 7.9

To waste time by delaying when you should act

highlights delaying by indecision rather than aimless dawdling
to dally
vsto shillyshally
4 7.7

To waste time by moving or acting slowly

is hesitation causing delay, not merely slow or idle behavior
to waver in
vsto shillyshally
3 6.6

To feel unsure about making a decision or taking action

is broader indecision that also delays decisions not only actions
to dillydally
vsto shillyshally
  • Informal
1 8.3

To waste time by being slow or unsure about what to do

focuses on the pause of indecision that delays decisions
to shilly-shally
vsto shillyshally
  • Informal
1 9.9

To hesitate before making a decision

is the same idea but written without the hyphen
to dither over
vsto shillyshally
1 7.9

To hesitate before deciding, often about small things

covers hesitation for any decision, not only minor matters
to stand shilly-shally
vsto shillyshally
  • Archaic
9.9

To be unsure and not decide

refers to general hesitation, not specifically wavering between choices
to drag one's feet
vsto shillyshally
  • Informal
5.5

To be slow on purpose because you do not want to do something

involves hesitant indecision rather than intentional slow refusal
to drag one's heels
vsto shillyshally
  • Informal
7.5

To delay doing something because you do not want to do it

stresses indecision and pause rather than unwilling slowness

Antonyms

1.0

To make a choice after thinking about the options

1.0

Take action to deal with a problem or situation

706 3.4

To give time, money, or effort to something

How Hesitant

to vacillate
8 8.1
to dither
8 7.7
to shillyshally
  • Informal
9.9
to hesitate
318 2.5
to pause
346 1.0

Surface Forms

shillyshally infinitive
shillyshallied past participle
shillyshallying present participle
shillyshallies third person singular

Etymology

Shillyshally probably comes from repeating the question 'shall I?', with the two parts shilly and shally sounding like someone asking 'shall I? shall I?'. So to shillyshally is to hesitate or delay instead of taking action.