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to dither

to dither

8 7.7
To act nervously and be unable to decide quickly
  • verb
  • /ˈdɪðər/
translation icon : dudar
  • You need to make a decision; don't just dither any longer.

We waste it getting ready, dithering and planning about standing at the water cooler.

Examples

  • We are dithering with our foreign policy.

  • Business owners and managers don't dither endlessly over what to do; they gather information and act.

    Blog text (13)
  • Why dither around, get to the point and just say it.

  • He'll dither around for a while, but not long.

  • What I got was so disappointing: Heroes who dither when a decision is called for.

    Blog text (18)
  • Just like they did with Greece, Germany will dither while blocking money to Spain until it's too late.

    Blog text (29)
  • Now here she was dithering about, and she hated herself for it.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • On virtually every issue, the Legislature has dithered rather than taking action.

    Blog text (25)
  • Come along, young man, don't stand there dithering.

  • Others acted decisively with lockdowns, but the Prime Minister dithered and delayed with deadly consequences.

Synonyms

to hesitate
vsto dither
318 2.5

To pause before saying or doing something because you feel unsure

is generally more nervous and fussy, not just a short pause
to waver
vsto dither
52 5.7

To show doubt when making a decision

is similar but often includes visible nervous agitation as well
to flap
vsto dither
  • UK
16 6.3

To get nervous and make a small fuss

is indecision paired with nervousness rather than mere agitation without choice
to waffle
vsto dither
15 8.3

To delay giving a clear answer or making a choice

is simple nervous hesitation rather than deliberate avoidance of commitment
to vacillate
vsto dither
8 8.1

To be unable to decide and keep changing between choices

is indecisive but often shows nervousness rather than equal alternation
to falter
vsto dither
4 5.4

To speak in a weak, broken voice because of strong feeling

is broader indecision or nervous action, not only hesitant speech
to waver in
vsto dither
3 6.6

To feel unsure about making a decision or taking action

is a more nervous, fidgety form of hesitation rather than a simple pause
to oscillate
vsto dither
3 7.4

Change repeatedly between different opinions or choices

is more about anxious hesitation than continuous back and forth
to waffle on
vsto dither
  • Informal
3 9.0

To keep changing your mind and not give a clear answer

is more about anxious inability to decide than deliberate evasion
to dither over
vsto dither
1 7.9

To hesitate before deciding, often about small things

is general nervous indecision not limited to small matters
to wabble
vsto dither
9.9

To be unsure and change your mind often

is indecisive too but often adds nervous or agitated behaviour
to shillyshally
vsto dither
  • Informal
9.9

Hesitate instead of deciding or acting quickly

is often more visibly anxious and agitated when unable to choose
to stand shilly-shally
vsto dither
  • Archaic
9.9

To be unsure and not decide

is similar but typically shows more nervous movement or fussing

Antonyms

1.0

To make a choice after thinking about the options

Phrasal Verbs

To hesitate before deciding, often about small things

How Indecisive

to vacillate
8 8.1
to waver
52 5.7
to dither
8 7.7
to hesitate
318 2.5
to pause
346 1.0

Surface Forms

dither infinitive
dithered past
dithered past participle
dithering present participle
dithers third person singular

Etymology

The verb dither comes from the same old sound word didder meaning 'to tremble' or 'shake', so to dither is to act nervously or to be unable to decide quickly.