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shilly

shilly

1 9.9
Feeling shy and unsure about what to do
  • adjective
  • Archaic
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  • He was feeling quite shilly before giving his presentation in front of the class.
  • shilly-shallying

And like, they just really build a shilly robot and that's the whole movie.

Examples

  • After weeks of shilly behavior, she finally mustered the courage to apply for the job.

  • Don't just stand there shilly; make a decision about which movie to watch.

  • I'll have no more shilly-shallying about the matter.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • And like, they just really build a shilly robot and that's the whole movie.

  • Now that I'm on my way, I intend to tell him a thing or two about his shilly-shallying.

  • Nothing. I'm here to tell you, until you have seen the Holy Ghost, it's all sham and shilly-shally.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • Spongebob will return my snail to me without any more shilly-shally.

  • Simply can't understand how I ever came to have a pair of shilly-shallying children like Rone and Ted.

    Blog text (31)
  • But enough shilly-shallying!

    Fiction book (2001)
  • Cheap shilly-shally thrill.

    Fiction book (1993)

Synonyms

shy
vsshilly
343 1.0

Nervous and likely to avoid people or new situations

is an old-fashioned label for nervous avoidance and slow action
hesitant
vsshilly
73 3.2

Slow to act or speak because you feel unsure

is an old-fashioned term for slow action from uncertainty and lack of confidence
timid
vsshilly
60 3.5

Shy and afraid to do new or risky things

is an old-fashioned word for general nervousness and slow action
coy
vsshilly
24 5.4

Acting shy to seem playful or avoid answering directly

is an old-fashioned term for genuine nervousness rather than playful evasion
bashful
vsshilly
18 3.2

Shy and easily embarrassed, avoiding attention

is an old-fashioned way to describe modest nervousness and slow action
sheepish
vsshilly
9 4.0

Feeling embarrassed and a little shy because of a mistake

is an old-fashioned term used for embarrassment linked to low confidence
gun-shy
vsshilly
  • Informal
7 7.9

Feeling nervous about doing something because of a past bad experience

is an old-fashioned word for general lack of confidence, not experience-based fear
mousy
vsshilly
5 5.9

Quiet and shy, not confident in groups

is an old-fashioned word used for low confidence and reluctance
diffident
vsshilly
4 8.0

Shy and not confident about speaking or acting in front of others

is an older term meaning low confidence rather than modern phrasing
timorous
vsshilly
  • Formal
1 8.6

Feeling nervous and lacking confidence in new situations

is an old-fashioned label for general nervousness and slow action
trepid
vsshilly
1 9.9

Feeling nervous and afraid to do something new

is an old-fashioned word for nervousness and pausing before action

Antonyms

715 2.5

Feeling sure about yourself or what will happen

Idioms

To be unsure and not decide

How Shy

timid
60 3.5
shilly
  • Archaic
1 9.9
hesitant
73 3.2
reserved
3.7

Surface Forms

shilly positive

Etymology

Shilly is an old-fashioned word that comes from the phrase shilly-shally, a repeating sound people used to show they hesitate. So a shilly person is 'shy' or 'hesitant', and a helpful way to remember it is to imagine someone saying the double sound when they can't decide.