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possessive

possessive

24 3.8
Wanting to keep people or things only for yourself and not share them
  • adjective
  • /pəˈzɛsɪv/
translation icon : posesivo
  • He became possessive of his favorite toy, refusing to let anyone else play with it.
  • possessive individualism

The man who is possessive is trying to control you.

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Examples

  • - My husband is a jealous man, he's controlling, he's possessive, he believes what he wants to believe.

  • Our image has nothing to do with us, even though we may feel possessive about it.

    Academic text (1999)
  • The man who is possessive is trying to control you.

  • But every time I try to play with it, he gets so possessive.

  • Was your sister ever jealous or possessive of you and any of your relationships?

  • That adds up to a jealous, possessive woman.

  • She was very jealous and possessive of my time.

  • I snugged the baby tight against my chest, feeling suddenly possessive and protective.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • Down here, Vandewalle exudes a possessive air of authority.

    Academic text (2009)
  • Prue's indignation at Tremaine's possessive manner was forgotten as she stepped into his magnificent library.

    Fiction book (2001)

Synonyms

covetous
vspossessive
3 8.4

Wanting very much to have something that belongs to someone else

includes wanting control and not sharing, even over people

Antonyms

328 1.6

Willing to give more than is expected, especially money or time

19 2.0

Willing to put other people's needs before your own

Compounds

possessive case
  • Specialized
4.4

A word form that shows who something belongs to, for example John's book

possessive pronoun
  • Specialized
2.0

A word that shows who owns something, like mine or yours

How Possessive

domineering
12 7.4
possessive
24 3.8
independent
984 2.3

Surface Forms

possessive positive

Morphology

possessive = possess (transparent) = possess + ive

The personality trait sense is a straightforward adjectival extension of 'possess' with '-ive', indicating tendency or disposition to possess or control.

Etymology

Possessive The word possessive is related to possess and possession, which mean 'to own' and 'something you own'. A helpful image is someone treating a person like a thing they 'own', which is why being possessive means not wanting to share or wanting control.