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patronizing

patronizing

22 7.7
Treating someone as if they are less able or important
  • adjective
  • /ˈpeɪtrəˌnaɪzɪŋ/
  • Offensive
translation icon : condescendiente
  • She noticed his patronizing attitude when he explained the task as if she were a child.
  • patronizing attitude
  • patronizing tone
  • patronizing approach

It is not demeaning, insulting, or patronizing to the animal themselves.

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Examples

  • "You get better at it with experience," he said, but that was a patronizing answer.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • "You certainly don't know anything," the old man said in a patronizing tone.

    Academic text (1995)
  • Sorry, can you all stop being so patronizing, please?

  • I really hate when you use that patronizing tone with me.

  • In fact, it seems just a little patronizing, like the sort of thing a radio personality would do.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • I'm over your patronizing tone, okay?

  • That's very patronizing of you.

  • Business should not fall victim to the tired and patronizing argument that the public will misunderstand the data.

    Academic text (1996)
  • However, to deny that this move is not changing the residential environment is patronizing and disingenuous.

    Academic text (2016)
  • Social sciences have recently moved from referring to their native sources as "informants" to the less patronizing word "consultants."

    Academic text (2016)

Synonyms

condescending
vspatronizing
65 7.4

Acting as if you are better than other people

is similar but hides superiority with apparent kindness
dismissive
vspatronizing
43 5.6

Acting as if someone or something is not important

covers superiority with helpfulness instead of simply ignoring others
snooty
vspatronizing
16 7.4

Acting as if you are better than other people

is more likely to sound kindly helpful while still feeling superior
snobby
vspatronizing
  • Offensive
16 6.3

A person who thinks they are better than other people and looks down on them

focuses on social rank while also masking superiority with false kindness
disdainful
vspatronizing
8 7.0

Showing that you think someone or something is not worth respect

hides superiority behind seeming kindness rather than showing contempt

Antonyms

222 2.8

Not proud and not thinking you are better than others

How Condescending

humiliating
  • Offensive
80 4.5
demeaning
33 4.8
condescending
65 7.4
patronizing
  • Offensive
22 7.7
respectful
150 1.1

Surface Forms

patronizing positive

Morphology

patronizing = patronize (opaque) = patron + ize + ing

Forming the participial adjective from the verb 'patronize' with '-ing' is a regular, transparent morphological process.

Etymology

The word patronizing comes from patron, a word for a person who helps or supports others and was seen as a 'protector'. Imagine a helper who talks down to you as if you are a child. So patronizing means seeming kind but really 'acting like you are better' than someone.